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Aubrey Ruth arrived at 3.01 a.m. on Feb. 14th via c-section after 28 hrs. of back labor. She was 6lbs 13oz and 18.25 inches. Cord was wrapped around her twice...b/c of some trouble urinating & feeding she was transferred to the NICU @ Miami Children's Hospital. Things seem to be improving now though. I'll post more when I get a better internet connection!

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Well I'm still in Miami, but have a computer in the hotel now, so I thought I'd share Aubrey's birth story.

On Thursday the 12th (Aubrey's due date), Huz and I went out for wings, hoping the spicy food might move things along. I'd been having cramps low in my back all day, but didn't associate it with labor. That evening the cramps got worse and Huz suggested we time them. They were getting regular, so we went to bed early and tried to rest, although I still didn't realize they were contractions.

I managed to get about three hours of sleep, and finally woke up around midnight realizing that the pain in my back must be contractions. That's also about when I started throwing up. I got in the tub for a while, which seemed to help. Huz got some more sleep, and I paced the house and tried to wait until my midwife's office opened at 9:00. Around 5:00 I got more uncomfortable and got back in the tub. By 8:00 the vomiting was so severe that I was afraid my being dehydrated was going to hurt my baby, so I went to the hospital to see if they could give me something to make the vomiting stop. My plan was to go home afterwards.

When we got to the hospital they wouldn't do anything without checking me into the LDR ward, so I went up and got all checked in. They gave me some Phenagren (sp?) which stopped the vomiting for a couple hours. Around 11:00 I decided it was time to go home because the vomiting had stopped and my contractions had slowed (probably because they hooked me up to monitors, etc., and I was getting stressed out). Just as I was about to get dressed, my water exploded. So of course they didn't want me to leave, and honestly the pain in my back was so bad I didn't care where I was or what was running out of me. Then the vomiting started up again and they decided I was dehydrated and needed fluids, so in went the IV.

By 5:00 in the evening I couldn't handle it anymore and got an epidural. At midnight they turned the epidural off so that I could push, but Baby refused to descend despite me being fully dilated. Then her heartrate spiked, my midwife recommended a c-section, and down I went to surgery. We learned that her cord was wrapped around her neck and again around her body, which I guess is why my midwife couldn't get her out.

At 3:01 a.m. on the 14th we had our baby girl. Within 24 hours she had her first helicopter ride to Miami Children's Hospital, where we've been since then. She didn't pee within 24 hours of her birth (probably because we were both dehydrated), so they did a bunch of tests including a baby spinal tap and concluded that she might have an infection. Three days later, we find out that's not the case, but she still wasn't feeding well. Three days after that, she's feeding fine but her bowels are distended...and its just been one thing after another as we try to break her out of the NICU.

She's finally straightened out, and with a little baby prevacid for severe reflux she should be coming home tomorrow or Tuesday. I can't believe how off track things went and how EVERYTHING I had planned went out the window, but I am super grateful that I am that I have a healthy baby.

Everyone at both hospitals was wonderful--my midwife, my doula, my LDR nurse, the flight crew on the helicopter, the NICU nurses, everyone. I hope I can remember to write them all thank-yous when this is over!
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Oh my goodness, I am so sorry you had 28 hours of back labor. I know how that is, I had 31 hours of back labor with my first son. But YAY!!! About your beautiful new baby girl!!! Congratulations!!!! :
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28 hours! (I thought my hour of back labor was awful!) Congratulations and best wishes for your little girl! I love the name Aubrey, btw.
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Congrats!!:
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Congratulations!! I went through the same thing with my 3rd son . . . long back labor followed by Csection.
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Congratulations! Audrey is one of my favorite names!
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Welcome Aubrey! I'm sorry about the back labor...yuck!
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Yay, I am so happy for you to have your sweet Valentines baby!! Back labor is hard, but she's here now and that's all that really matters!! Congrats mama!! Welcome baby Aubrey!! :
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Welcome Aubrey!!! Sorry that your labor was difficult. Wishing you and your girl a speedy recovery.
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Congratulations, momma! :
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Congratulations Mama! Here's to speedy recovery for you and Aubrey!
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Congratulations!!! I'm so sorry your labor was so awful, mama. And I hope everything's okay with your little girl.
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Added Aubrey's birth story. Also wanted to mention--Eliseatthebeach, you were right about losing my mucous plug. Baby arrived a couple days later!
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I am glad baby is here, sorry about the hard time. I had back labor too. I am so sorry.
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Added Aubrey's birth story. Also wanted to mention--Eliseatthebeach, you were right about losing my mucous plug. Baby arrived a couple days later!
nak

Your post about the mucus plug was quite comical indeed....I always take that along with the "slime" seriously.

What a hard labor you had....I couldn't imaging that much vomiting during labor. Both are hard enough to deal with on their own! I had back labor with my first dd and it was soooo painful. I spent a few hours in the shower leaning over a chair with the hot water beating down on my back.



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I can't believe how off track things went and how EVERYTHING I had planned went out the window

There was a thread on here a while back about "birth plans" to which I responded "my birth plan is to get to the hospital on time". In my case this last time we did just get there on time, had we gotten a red light I would have delivered in my car....ewww!
This (and many other reasons) is exactly why I have never had a birth plan. The reality if any of it going the way you want is so far fetched and if you realize that then you are much better off.
Shit happens, especially during labor and birth.....things that have not been planned for and all you really want is your baby, no matter what.
I am sorry things didn't go the way you had hoped....especially about Aubrey having feeding difficulties. You never want to see you dc suffer. to you, you are doing a great job with her already....what a great mama you are! Hopefully you are all back home today. I really do wish you all the best!
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