Originally Posted by tgrlilly
I know ive put my self up for every type of support or criticism by posting here, but really Grrr..trueyou2 I have taken my son to a counselor knowing full well my former partner would be reported, (I made the appt. two days after he told me! and stayed home from work or took ds with me so he wouldn't be alone with dad). I have voluntarily agreed to zero contact with my sons father and he has been out of my home for weeks - removed by the police. I have had my son in for a forensic interview, given testimony, evidence and access to my home to the special victims unit detectives, sherrifs dept. and cps; I am now a single mother of one and four months pregnant working full time
What about my scenario suggests I am taking my partners side on this? That I haven't physically attacked him yet?
If you are not in this situation it is easy (apparently) to judge, but until you have your reality blown up and your family destroyed and your hopes for a better childhood for your children ended; and in todays economy where I really don't feel like I can quit my job or up and move or what? -
really your comments are not supportive at all and very unappreaciated. So please go back to your perfect world and leave me alone to pick up the pieces of my son's and my life. Honestly.
I didn't read the whole entire 4 pages of posts other members and your updates, I just responded to your first question. Plus, I know what you're going through; my fiance died while I was still pregnant with my 1st son 8 months pregnant. So all my dreams of a family and the life he promised was doomed, plus, I was abused as well; when I was 4 years old; told my mom when I was about 18 for the first time (27 now). Now, had I wrote what I wrote the first time you started this thread it would have been appropriate, since, you asked for advice but it's my fault like I've said for not reading all the pages of this thread; I just read the one and that was the first one.
And it turns out after I read all the updating that you aren't that mother at all which, is a great thing, because, believe me there are mothers like that.
So, I am greatly sorry for not reading this entire thread "first" before writing my comment/advice.