or Connect
Mothering › Mothering Forums › Mom › Talk Amongst Ourselves › Personal Growth › child sexuality/abuse?
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:

child sexuality/abuse? - Page 15

post #281 of 416
Just thinking about you tgrlilly, hope everything is ok...
post #282 of 416
How are you doing, tgrlilly? And your son?
post #283 of 416
I just read through this entire thread ... Mama, you are a hero. You are doing so well, and your son is truly blessed to have you.
post #284 of 416
just read this entire thread and am amazed at your strength. i cannot believe the things that man has pulled and continues to pull, but you are strong enough to care for your son and your baby without him.

many many (((hugs))) to you and yours.
post #285 of 416
Thread Starter 
Hello All!
Yes, it has been a long time since I've posted last. Thank you for your support and for checking in.

Right now things are going well - I sometimes think its the calm before the storm - we will probably be going to court soon for custody -

DS is doing well and the babe in my belly is growing nicely and we are doing well.

It has been a nice few weeks of just regular living - I've not had any contact with the folks here in town who are unsupportive or the inlaws etc. and that has been good for me.

Thank you again for all the support & know for now we are doing well, moving on, etc. I will keep posted on developments.

happy summer!
post #286 of 416
I'm so glad you updated, I still think of you often and wonder how you are.

I hope the custody goes the only way it should, anything else would be insanity imo.
post #287 of 416
I read this the other day. Your strength and resolve are remarkable. Keep it up!
post #288 of 416
Great update!
Thank you.
I'll keep thinking of you guys.
post #289 of 416
Thread Starter 
Hello - Just a quick update.

Baby is due in just about a month!! wow.. we are getting ready for that.

The last month or so I've been...gasp...happy!
Things for us are going pretty well. DS has his own therapist, my mom is really taking care of us and I've learned to just leave alone people & situations who are not supportive.

The custody situation is just beginning to be addressed and nothing new on the criminal charges. As far as custody goes I just have to continue to stand up for my son and make sure anything is good for him and keeps him protected - not focused on what his dad wants...

I am so thankful when I think back to how I was feeling just a few months ago compared to today.

I wasn't able to move, but having my mom here has us feeling supported..

Thank you all for thinking of us & I will check back in as things progress.

Yours-
post #290 of 416
Strong and Brave Mama Tgr, you are an amazing woman! It's wonderful to see your update.

Do you need any baby items?
post #291 of 416
Good news! Here's to a happy, safe, & healthy final stretch of pregnancy!

post #292 of 416
I am so glad things are going well! : Thank you for updating. I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks about you often and hopes everything is going well for you and your family.
post #293 of 416
Quote:
Originally Posted by LavenderMae View Post
I am so glad things are going well! : Thank you for updating. I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks about you often and hopes everything is going well for you and your family.
post #294 of 416
Hi Tgrlily, I just read everything and I have such admiration for you. I was abused as a child and had absolutely no one. You are such a WONDERFUL mother!!! Your son is so blessed to have you :
post #295 of 416
Just popping in to say ((((hugs)))) mama!!! We're pulling for you!

:
post #296 of 416
Thread Starter 
Oh thank you all! seriously those were some hard days and coming here to mdc and receiving support and great advise helped so much!

I know its not over yet, but thank goodness for a break at least!

Thank you all again - your support helped me get through doing the hard, right things I had to do.:
post #297 of 416
Oh, nice to hear an update. Keep us posted.
post #298 of 416
Thanks for a new update, you are so strong and brave. I'll keep you in my thoughts.
post #299 of 416
I couldn't read this post without commenting. Mama, you are a hero.
post #300 of 416
Just saw this thread. What a journey you are on, how strong and courageous you have been.

Your son will be forever grateful and secure because of the resolve you've shown!

I hope you and your son are doing well and that your upcoming birth is beautiful and peaceful!
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:
  Return Home
  Back to Forum: Personal Growth
Mothering › Mothering Forums › Mom › Talk Amongst Ourselves › Personal Growth › child sexuality/abuse?