I just feel so low right now. Andrew talked to the commander today, and its not looking good that he'll be around for the birth. The words "key position" were used and the fact that this is our second baby and a normal pregnancy were also brought up. Apparently that means that this baby is less valuable to us as a family and therefore its not necessary for DH to witness the birth or be here during the first couple of weeks. I'm so angry because I feel like we've sacrificed so much and continue to sacrifice and we just keep getting sh!t on. I just want to know one way or the other so I can feel like crap about it and start planning for it, I just feel like all the joy surrounding this baby has been sucked dry.
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3/6/09 at 9:15pm