Morning...
It's rainy and dreary here today for the second day in a row. Supposed to be nice and sunny tomorrow and then rainy and dreary Saturday.....maybe we'll hit the Science Center. No use having a membership if we never use it right??
I'm in a conundrum for tomorrow....I have a good friend (friend A)who is in town with her little girl and I haven't seen her in just over a year and we had plans to meet another friend )friend B) and her little girl (born same day and year as my dd1...i was 2 wk late, she was 2wk early) out to eat somewhere......But they changed the plans and told me about it. I wasn't part of the conversation....
The plans are now to meet at friend B's house and order in so the girls can play. I don't have a problem with that but I just didn't want to be out for too long. I wanted to visit with my friend and chill for a bit at the restaraunt....They are gonna get the kids McD's for dinner and order subs or something.....and friend B came down on me bc I wasn't going to get dd1 McD's bc she has it on dance night bc it's quick and easy and we don't let her eat it more than 1x a week (it's down to 2x/mo now)....but if she sees the other 2 girls eating it, she's going to want it.....and she said, "Well, I just don't want them fighting" and I said, "Look, they always fight. They are almost 5. YOU are the one that changed the plans and E agreed but nobody bothered to talk to me about it. You guys are going to be drinking, I won't have a way home bc you aren't going to drink and then drive the girls and I home. My sister is dropping me off but has plans of her own tonight."
So.......I really want to see my friend who is in town. She's leaving early in the morning to go back to TN. But I don't want to be stuck at friend B's house all night. It sucks. I hate being left out of decsions esp when I was part of the first one. I understand that it's easier for the girls to play at B's house but....I don't know. Maybe I'm just being silly. I spose I could go but then I'd only be there for an hour or so......If I let dd eat McD's twice this week, she's gonna ask for it nonstop.....that's why we instilled the rule.
Frustrating....
Jeanine: You are funny......Mom gave dd1 an ant farm for Christmas 2 years ago....I still haven't sent away for the ants.....mine should arrive sometimes in what? June??? hahahaha. Love your life in pictures. Resembles mine....I love it too.....she'd just finished nursing and my sis came in and snapped the pic bc she was grinning that way....eyes all squished up....
Falicia: I hope the interview goes well. NYC isn't all that bad...........
Ok, I need to go take some Excedrin and run these yellows through the wash one more time.....
Katie: Dd1 was the same way.....and everyone thought she was older....when I was like, "um, she's 1 1/2" they were always like, "Oh....." Hugs. I think alot of ppl don't remember what toddlers are like bc it's usually ppl about 15 years older than me (well, and up I should say) that tend to say something. People my around my age tend to just look and give you that I'm sorry, I know....look. And fwiw, I prayed for the same thing when I was pregnant with Lilah.....

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