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Originally Posted by LaurieG 
I'm thinking specifically of a cows milk (or soy) protein intolerance, which most of the docs we've seen actually do recognize to some extent. With DS they told me it would go away by the time he was 6 months. With DD they said 12 months, then they said 18 months, and now they are saying 2-3 yrs. So it seems like (to a very limited extent) there is some acceptance that these issues exist in young children and for some reason the mainstream medical establishment is under the impression that they go away on their own. I'm curious why they have come to that conclusion, when most of us here have had a different experience or don't really buy it.
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Often times, the symptoms change. Since the symptoms change, they don't recognize it as being a problem any longer.
For example, with DS1, in his first year of life, he had "colic" for 19 hours a day, constipation severe enough to cause anal fissures and bleeding, occasional vomiting, one incidence of pale, limp, lifelessness, and problems sleeping (didn't sleep in more than 30 minute stretches). After that, he switched off to diarrhea for 6 months, "colic" for a mere 9 hours a day, occasional vomiting (attributed to colds and the like), problems sleeping and behavioral problems. At around 2 years of age, he had autistic-type problems ("downgraded" to "ADHD" by removing food colorings, ketchup, ranch dressing and whey), occasional vomiting (attributed to "overeating"), asthma, problems getting to sleep...
And that is a "true" allergy to cow's milk, which the medical establishment supposedly recognizes constantly. Yet, I took him to so many doctors I lost count trying to get someone to help us.
So, originally, with DS1 they told me it was possible he had "lactose intolerance" and it would go away. When I changed him to soy formula and it didn't go away, I was told "He must be intolerant of that too". But it wasn't important enough to change to a hypo-allergenic formula (despite the fact that I was literally delusional from lack of sleep) because he'd "outgrow it". When the symptoms changed around 2 years to primarily behavioral/sleep issues and asthma, I was told basically that there was no way it was intolerances ("Oh he's outgrown that.") and that he had ADHD and asthma and I should put him on Ritalin and steroids (oh and stop feeding him so much so he'd stop vomiting


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Oh, did I mention that I was told to put him on formula because of the very symptoms that got *worse* on formula? Yeah. And then I couldn't get him back to breast.

Go, mainstream med.

(I'm a little bitter, excuse me.)
So basically, no one ever said the word "allergy" to me so I was completely clueless since the only experience I'd ever had with allergies was environmental/seasonal. None of my searching online ever brought up allergies either.
Does that make it more clear what I mean?