Originally Posted by InochiZo
Oh no Tiff, What's going on? I wish I knew of anything.
my dad. again.
this time he got in Addys face. nose to nose. screaming at her.
then i came in the room cause i heard him yelling and i knew she was in there, i asked him clmly and firmly (THAT took all my strength) to leave the room, he wouldnt back down. i screamed "leave my child alone!" he turned on me, got in my face, started screaming at me, not letting me in the room to comfort Addy, i finally squeezed past him and shut the door. he opened it back up continuing to scream at me. i tried to shut the door. he wouldnt move. i used my whole 300lbs against the door, it finally shut. the door doesnt have a lock on it, so instead of hugging my child and comforting her, i had to use my body weight to block the door while he kept trying to slam into it to get it open. my mom came running, yanked him back, told him to leave me alone, that he was out of control, so he turned his screaming at her, and i was able to leave the door, and go hug Addy, who was just pale, and still, and staring into nothingness.
i am still sick about it.
then, as i was getting the girls ready for bed, my mom told him "i cant believe you havent even apologized to Addy yet" and that set him off... "you are out of control, tiffany is out of control, you are all out of control" all the while, we are calm and he is purple faced, screaming, spittle flying looking like a crazy person.
i wont let my children be intimidated, and screamed at, the same way i was as a child. we have to move. asap. even if its into a studio in the ghetto, we have to move. i refuse to let my children endure what i did.
he is getting worse and worse as he ages too.
and his while aggressive attitude yesterday started because we were out of dog treats. dog treats!!!!!