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post #201 of 216
Autumnlaughing, yay for Oing!

Doing okay today. Temps still up. Not feeling AFy yet so thats good.
post #202 of 216
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goodness gracious I have been peeing on this left and right. My dog was lucky I was not peeing on all the stuff HE was peeing on during our walk this morning haha. BFN today so.... hmmm... maybe its just AF sneaking up on me...
Lauren, I'm still hopeful for you! That chart is nothing short of beautiful!!! :
post #203 of 216
stevi - how are you doing? Haven't heard from you in a while. You must be off in happy-land!
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Thanks for making me smile. I needed it after "seeing" (on the webcam) my pregnant, younger than me, SIL who's due 7 days after I was with her "oopsie" baby. Don't get me wrong. Totally, absolutely excited to be an auntie again, and I love her very very much, but...hm. It's hard.
I love you honey. That's hard (even though I know how much you love her).
post #205 of 216
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Autumn, YAY FOR OING!!!!! It is so exciting to get your body to cooperate!!!

Kali-- your temps look fabulous!!! I hear you on the not having AF like symptoms... I hope she doesn't sneak up on me though!!!

Tear-- I think it is so understandable to be angry and upset seeing your sister pregnant... it is such a grieving process and this is just one more obstacle to overcome. You will love your new nephew or niece, don't worry about that, but just take some time for yourself and allow yourself to feel whatever emotions come at you!
post #206 of 216
Thanks, you two. It's weird, I think I'm trying so hard to move on that I'm flipping between joking and silliness, then sobbing and tantruming. Like you said, Lauren, I just need to feel it all and go through the process. I hope I'm not bringing everybody down. It's probably more appropriate to post elsewhere, but this is my MDC family.
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Thanks, you two. It's weird, I think I'm trying so hard to move on that I'm flipping between joking and silliness, then sobbing and tantruming. Like you said, Lauren, I just need to feel it all and go through the process. I hope I'm not bringing everybody down. It's probably more appropriate to post elsewhere, but this is my MDC family.
It is all part of the ttc journey and I think it is appropriate to post here. You don't necessarily need us all to have had a MC and then a sister be pregnant with a "whoops" baby directly following to understand your pain right now.
post #208 of 216
Thank you Lauren.

ps--are we the official Saturday afternoon addicts? lol...
post #209 of 216
So I'm official - please move me to 2ww!

I had to tell DH - who was terrified. I repeated to him that even at it's highest, we only have about a 25% chance. I wish I could tell him that I was sure he'd find a job in nine months, but it's been six weeks now, and he really hasn't found much of anything in his field. And it isn't him, it's the damn economy...

Anyhow - Lauren and Kali - your charts look AWESOME!!!

Tear -
post #210 of 216
Tear, I feel like I understand your frustration, anger, sadness and all... My SIL also got pregnant IMMEDIATELY after getting off BC (she was told it would take 18-24 months to get pregnant, which we all know is NOT necessarily AT ALL true) and before she even got married.

Here we are, three years after getting married and trying over a year. Jerks just got pregnant right off the bat. It's hard not to have hard feelings.

Now I am finally pregnant, but terrified that the m/c is right around the corner...and it certainly could be.

Best to you, Tear.
post #211 of 216
Oh, Cellist. Thank you! Why do things like that happen? It seems so unfair sometimes. Other times I wonder if our desperate wanting makes it not happen. I'm so happy that you're pregnant now, and I'm thinking happy healthy thoughts for you. :
post #212 of 216
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grrrr.... I took two tests today... both were BFN. I am thinking if it is not BFP by 12dpo then I have really no hope for a BFP... oh well...
post #213 of 216
Many, many people don't get BFP until 14 dpo.
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Many, many people don't get BFP until 14 dpo.
I hear rumors of this, but somehow it is hard to apply it to me!
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Originally Posted by Autumnlaughing View Post
So I'm official - please move me to 2ww!

I had to tell DH - who was terrified. I repeated to him that even at it's highest, we only have about a 25% chance. I wish I could tell him that I was sure he'd find a job in nine months, but it's been six weeks now, and he really hasn't found much of anything in his field. And it isn't him, it's the damn economy...

Anyhow - Lauren and Kali - your charts look AWESOME!!!

Tear -
Good luck! And thanks, but I think I am out 12 dpo and a BFN :
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