Putting my pastor hat on now... I would really strongly encourage you to find a church family where you "fit" We have a few friends, and no family around.
Our beliefs are eclectic and the UU church nearest us believes in the children attending Sunday school and this particular one believes in teaching things I believe should be taught by the parents (specifically homosexuality). I don't disagree with their take on it, I just don't want THEM teaching it--especially not to my 5-8yo. I had a church community and I fully "get" what you're saying which is why we have spent so long looking, but I am DONE spending Sundays in churches that I absolutely can't sit through a service in.
We have eclectic beliefs, thus we thought the UU church (and a few others) would be okay.
We follow our sermons on television now to get the reinforcement we need. We even considered moving halfway across the country to attend THAT church, but we can't.
It's not as easy as "find a church" I assure you. Please don't offer up a specific denomination to try as we have tried ALL of them except for Jehovah's Witness and Seventh Day Adventist (I know enough about those religions to know it absolutely doesn't fit with our beliefs).