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I have been substitute teaching this year in hopes of someday getting a "real" teaching job, but was a SAHM for over six years. Before that, I subbed for a few years. So I basically have a vast desert instead of professional references, other than decade-old letters from my master teachers when I was student teaching that are theoretically in the university's computers somewhere.

Right now I sub exclusively son's at my son's school, which I picked for him because it was sort of my dream-school, pedagogically-speaking. It works out well - convenient for me, the teachers, and the kids (teachers have told me that other subs are just plain mean to the kids b/c the school atmosphere is so different than that of a "normal" school). My grand plan was to sub for however many years it took for a job to come up, building up references somehow in the meantime. However, "the grapevine" tells me that there may be one or more positions opening up for next year.

On paper I'm a viable candidate - just finished my master's in a valued education area, name-brand undergrad university, people like me at the school, etc. However, the whole "references" thing totally eludes me to the point that I have never asked for a reference in my life. In retrospect, this reference-anxiety has been a major stumbling block to my post-undergraduate career, or lack thereof.

I'm 35. It's way past time to get over this issue!

But if teachers are going to retire soon, they'll probably announce it in the next couple of months and I need my ducks in a row to apply for a job, including a completed application to the school district, which requires the dread references.

How??? Ack!
post #2 of 4
So, if I understand correctly, you're applying to the district where you're subbing, right? I know it sound weird, but I would use letters from supervisors within that district along with those decades-old masters' degree recommendations if you can dig them up. If you can also find some of your work from your masters degree, you might be able to track down the teacher you did the work for, show him/her the work to jog the memory, and ask for a new reference. It's not unheard of. What about getting in touch with your cooperating teacher from student teaching?
post #3 of 4
Dear XXX,

I will be applying for a teaching position at XXX school. As part of the application, I am required to supply 3 references.

Fill in details of you association and rationale for asking that person.

Would you be willing to write a reference letter for me?


Sincerely,


XXX

PS Or give them a call or email! Heck, I drop by with coffee and bagels and then I ask :-))) I just went through this, btw. I had a friend from a job 12 years ago write, a friend from a job 10 years ago and someone from 8 years ago (I had been at home for many years).
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Does it say that references are required?

I've given out references to employers before, but I think only one actually called, and it was to a company whose policy it is to just verify employment dates.
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