we're going on a road trip this summer, and we'll be doing some camping too. we're following dh's band for a few days to a festival in illinois, where we'll be camping in our pop-up trailer, then i'm going to visit family in chicago, and then a friend and i are driving back with the kids. i won't be able to use cloth diapers at all, for a number of reasons (nowhere to wash them, especially at the festival which is already hot and smelly w/o adding a bag of stinky fluff to the mix; also, my dad is strictly anti-cloth at his house, but i've learned to deal with it, especially since he feeds and houses me and my kids for two weeks!). i hate that we'll be using more gas and doing sposies for almost a month, but if i can make smart decisions about what we're eating on, where we're going to the bathroom, etc., i can do it in good conscience. 
so, here are my questions:
-our trailer doesn't have a toilet. this will really only be an issue for us at the festival. all that's there is port-a-potties, and i really am not looking forward to the prospect of taking my 3.5 y/o in one of those things! I'm thinking of getting something like this portable camping toilet, but i'm not 100% sure how it works. i just keep picturing the camping toilet that dh's grandparents had, where you went in a bag everytime, and that had to get thrown away. i don't want to make a ton of trash everytime we use the thing! any other suggestions?
-i'm planning to bring lots, and lots, and lots of cloth napkins. there should be no issue washing all of those when we get to my dad's. we've been off of paper towels and napkins here for two years, so it should be a no-brainer transition to do it while camping. if anyone can think of anything that i should know about in this department, please let me know.
-i'm going to feel really terrible about throwing away all of my fruit and vegetable scraps, when they would be going to my compost pile at home. should i just dump them on the edge of some farmer's field as i drive by?
-lastly, i'm trying to figure out plates, cups, utensils, etc. we have a sink, so there's no reason that we can't wash dishes (we also have a stove, so we'll be doing some cooking). i am not interested in doing plastic, but i do want to do something that is durable and isn't going to break. i thought about corelle, but i think that it would break into a million pieces with all of the bouncing while driving. i'd like to do bamboo, but some mamas on another board are telling me that it's not too durable. enamelware is another option that i know about. help, please! give me the good and bad about enamelware, bamboo, etc., and let me know if there are other options i should be considering.
ETA: i also worry about all of the energy i'll be using with a propane stove (i suppose that i could turn the gas off as soon as i get it lit), and the impact of the batteries from our lanterns. any other suggestions?
ETA, again: As far as the enamelware goes, is there anything scary that I should be worried about (aluminum, lead, etc.)? I may be getting some older enamelware from DH's grandparents...
Also, in case anyone was going to mention water, we have our Klean Kanteens, so we'll be bringing those, and probably some large jugs of water for filling up. Again, if there's a better solution, I'd love to know what it might be (I know that sometimes you can find stores that offer some kind of water fill-up, but on our way out, we're going to be really pressed for time; we'll be doing 12 hour drives every day, without much time for stopping [which is going to e an adventure with two little kids!]).

so, here are my questions:
-our trailer doesn't have a toilet. this will really only be an issue for us at the festival. all that's there is port-a-potties, and i really am not looking forward to the prospect of taking my 3.5 y/o in one of those things! I'm thinking of getting something like this portable camping toilet, but i'm not 100% sure how it works. i just keep picturing the camping toilet that dh's grandparents had, where you went in a bag everytime, and that had to get thrown away. i don't want to make a ton of trash everytime we use the thing! any other suggestions?
-i'm planning to bring lots, and lots, and lots of cloth napkins. there should be no issue washing all of those when we get to my dad's. we've been off of paper towels and napkins here for two years, so it should be a no-brainer transition to do it while camping. if anyone can think of anything that i should know about in this department, please let me know.

-i'm going to feel really terrible about throwing away all of my fruit and vegetable scraps, when they would be going to my compost pile at home. should i just dump them on the edge of some farmer's field as i drive by?

-lastly, i'm trying to figure out plates, cups, utensils, etc. we have a sink, so there's no reason that we can't wash dishes (we also have a stove, so we'll be doing some cooking). i am not interested in doing plastic, but i do want to do something that is durable and isn't going to break. i thought about corelle, but i think that it would break into a million pieces with all of the bouncing while driving. i'd like to do bamboo, but some mamas on another board are telling me that it's not too durable. enamelware is another option that i know about. help, please! give me the good and bad about enamelware, bamboo, etc., and let me know if there are other options i should be considering.
ETA: i also worry about all of the energy i'll be using with a propane stove (i suppose that i could turn the gas off as soon as i get it lit), and the impact of the batteries from our lanterns. any other suggestions?
ETA, again: As far as the enamelware goes, is there anything scary that I should be worried about (aluminum, lead, etc.)? I may be getting some older enamelware from DH's grandparents...
Also, in case anyone was going to mention water, we have our Klean Kanteens, so we'll be bringing those, and probably some large jugs of water for filling up. Again, if there's a better solution, I'd love to know what it might be (I know that sometimes you can find stores that offer some kind of water fill-up, but on our way out, we're going to be really pressed for time; we'll be doing 12 hour drives every day, without much time for stopping [which is going to e an adventure with two little kids!]).








We use the port-o-johns most of the time. They are actually kept quite clean, even at the most lax of festivals. The only time we use the jars is for middle of the night or first thing in the morning. Those are the times the port-o-johns are the dirtiest. You can usually hear when the honey wagon comes through to clean and restock TP, then we have the "all clear" signal. That is usually pretty early in the morning. But usually dd cannot wait to walk that far first thing so the jars are all ready to go. I have never had a problem taking dd into the port-o-johns when they are clean. But we did borrow a friends baby potty for the first summer she potty learned just to cut down on the trips to the port-o-johns. We emptied the jars and potty into the outhouses. It is pretty common so people do not give us looks. But if it worries you, pull a dirty sock over the jar so it is not so obvious. Rinse with a bit of soap. We have ours marked so we each have our own....dd has three

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The Cabela's bucket might be a good idea though. I also forgot that we happen to have a seat 
I'm rather squeamish when it comes to bugs, so I don't do well with that!
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