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Originally Posted by jessiii83 
 I'm new here, as well. Though we certainly weren't trying for baby, we certainly weren't trying to prevent it, either... with that being said...
I'm 21 dpo and still getting BFN. I took a test at 15 and 16 dpo and 20 and 21 dpo. Negative. I am having all of these strange symptoms, though... I'm tired, lightheaded if I stand up quickly, up and down throughout the night going to the bathroom. I either hate the thought of food or I'm ravenous. My precious boyfriend tells me I'm being very sensitive as of the last couple of days. I have this queasy feeling in my tummy right behind my belly button. I've also developed a canker sore and a yest infection the last week. All kinds of strange things going on... I'm just dying to know if anyone can offer any advice? All kinda of symptoms, just 2 BFN. Grrr... Thanks in advance... !
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Well, here are my three BFP stories:
With #1, my "period" started on schedule, but then quickly turned wonky -- bleeding stopped for a day, spotted another day, bled again, etc. I was living abroad and HPTs were ridiculously expensive, plus I had been bleeding, so I didn't test until a good week or so later and got an obvious BFP.
With #2, I had a 20 or so HPTs that were expiring that month so I tested fairly often. I had what I thought was my first PPAF from #1, but it also turned funny -- except that instead of petering out I kept bleeding and bleeding, very heavily for me. I tested immediately when I started bleeding and every day thereafter for two full weeks until I got a BFP, at what must have been at least 21 or 22 DPO (think 14 days after ovulation bleeding) as later confirmed by u/s.
With #3, I was positive when I ovulated because it was the first month after #2 that I had any kind of cervical mucus and it was a very classic pattern. I tested the day I missed my period. Negative. I tested a full week later, so 21 or so DPO. Negative. I decided I must not be pregnant. DH insisted I test again another week later because I was sleeping a lot and dreaming about food, and I finally got a clear BFP, though not a terribly dark one. I was sure I had either been mistaken about my ovulation date or ovulated twice but u/s dated the baby to the day I had thought. It was the only pregnancy that I did not have any bleeding and I was perversely more worried about this one than any other. But DS3 is a happy and healthy 12 week-old!