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ABC's What Would You Do?

post #1 of 8
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Did anyone see the episode on Tuesday night? I can't shake it. I caught just the tail end of the hazing section, which was bad enough. But then they had an actor fall down on a busy city street to see if people would stop to help. I was horrified and heartbroken by the results. That one little crippled woman calling out for help... Does anyone know what I'm talking about? Did anyone see this? I would like to talk about it with someone. I still get teary when I think about it.
post #2 of 8
I can't watch that show. It just stresses me out.
post #3 of 8
Thread Starter 
Me neither, apparently. Next time I'll shut it off.
post #4 of 8
I don't know who could possibly tolerate it! The things they show on TV these days, ey?
post #5 of 8
I love this show. I havent watched the last episode though, because my son wanted to watch it as well and hasnt had the chance.

The episodes dealing with racism always get me to tear up a bit....i'd like to think i'd be one of those people that stands up and does the right thing, but i guess you never really know until you are confronted with the situation.

I am really glad they made this an actual show rather than just a segment of "Primetime" (i think that was the show? Or 20/20?)....i find it really thought provoking...and at times pretty funny (anyone see the one with the "Bad Americans" in France? It was sooo funny, with some unexpected outcomes!)

I also like how they switch it up...like, will a man be treated worse than a woman, will a woman dressed like more innocently be "rescued" by bystanders more often than a woman who isnt dressed so conservatively? (they had one episode where an actor slipped a pill into a woman's drink, another actor, to see who would speak up and save her.)

Just because a show brings out strong feelings or makes you feel bad/sad doesnt make the show itself bad...

Katherine
post #6 of 8
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I agree queenjane, after having a few more days to process what I saw, I think it was actually really beneficial for me to observe it. I think I'll remember that and perhaps act differently if I see someone in a similar situation. Maybe I was upset because it made me face the ugly side of myself as well as others, ya know? Who's to say I wouldn't have just passed by some apparently drunk, homeless man laying on the sidewalk if I saw him there? The truth is, I probably would have... that's hard to admit. I do know that I would have stopped to help when the lady was standing there also, no question in my mind about that, I was totally sickened when people didn't even slow down for her. But, is that really any worse than not stopping in the first place? Thank you for your thoughtful reply. Feel free to weigh in again once you've seen the episode.
post #7 of 8
I watch this on ABC's website. Has anyone seen the episode with the baby alone in a hot car?

I know what I'D do in that situation, especially now!
post #8 of 8
I haven't seen the show, but I would do something. I have intervened about five times in my lifetime.

Twice against my step-father who was fighting with my mom and three was with total strangers. One time he was scuffling with her, and I got in between them and screamed at him to stop. The second time was when they were fighting in the kitchen and he started pointing a large kitchen knife in front of her. So I put out my arms, and yelled at him, "go ahead and cut me". He threw down the knife and left the kitchen.

Then I came upon an accident when I was about 22 between an 18 wheeler and a car under a viaduct in a really bad neighborhood. I stopped my car, ran across the street to the only place around - a liquor store - to use a pay phone and called 911. The people in the place looked at me like I had 3 heads and they could tell I didn't belong in their neighborhood (white girl in a minority neighborhood). I stayed long enough to make the call. I came back to my car, and made sure the guy in the truck was okay (he was bleeding a little on the forehead I think). I think I couldn't leave because he was blocking my car, or maybe I did when I heard the cops coming. I can't remember it was about 20 years ago.

Then later, in college, a social studies teacher got beat up a bit because he was protesting a Nation of Islam (Louis Farrakhan) group meeting and passing out flyers to people leaving the auditorium. I was studying in a nearby room with a friend and heard a commotion. I ran out of the room and there was the guy moaning and his mouth bleeding, a few students looking scared and not knowing what to do, and 3 large men in black tuxedos with their arms folded looking rather PO'd. Naive me knew nothing of what they were, but I saw the man on the floor dazed and incoherent. I don't know what compelled me, but I went to the man and attended to him until the paramedics came. All I did was basically tell someone to get a jacket for under his head, and held his hand and kept him talking and checking to see where he was hurt. I was just trying to keep him conscious because he was really out of it. I only realized later I should have been scared, but I didn't know about the men until later. A few people came up to me and asked me if I was a nurse or something, but of course, I wasn't.

The last thing I did was yell at a woman for beating her child on the legs with a switch at my train stop in Chicago. People were watching, not saying anything, but I went up to her and yelled at her for beating her son. She said it was because he wasn't listening. I told her she needed to stop beating him. If she needed to discipline him, one small spank would have been enough (this was before I had kids and realized spanking was no good anyway). She was all in my face and yelling at me like she was going to do something to me, but I held my ground and yelled at her again. That poor child, he wasn't doing much wrong. He was just acting his age (he must have been about 4 or 5).

I don't know what gets into me to intervene up against strangers. I think it had something to do with being conditioned not to accept abuse by my family. I mean, they tried, but I had lots of practice fighting back. I'm always sticking up for injustices. And, I get an odd sense of feeling alive when I do get to help others like that.
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