Hi! I'm not on Mothering.com very often (I hang out mostly at The BabyWearer) but I've had three homebirths with Cilia, and I love her

I have even considered going into midwifery when my kids are older and apprenticing with her. YMMV and personalities will vary, but I've always found her very knowledgeable, friendly, and receptive to my needs, as long as I make the effort to communicate them with her. I don't know if she'll make housecalls for prenatals -- maybe if there were a little extra compensation for her travel time? I never asked her about that -- but she is very hands-off when asked. I wanted minimal interference with my last two births, and she was quite happy to fade into the background until I needed her for something. She was trained in the Netherlands as a direct entry, lay midwife, rather than in a strictly medical setting (as in the US).
I'm also the webmistress for the NHMA site, and all I can tell you is that I can work only with the information I'm given. If you can email me at
info@sleepingbaby.net with the midwives who are no longer practicing, I will update the site as best I can; I think that many of them are only peripherally aware of the website, so when they stop practicing, it's not really on their radar to email me and have me remove them from the listings. I'd love to have the site be really up to date, but it all depends on them letting me know what's going on
