Fi, I find your experience in the U.K. quite shocking. After all, Gairdner's article was published in 1949, and that basicaly spelled the end of routine circs. So after 60 years I would have hoped that they were better trained.
My sister lives in England, and when she was expecting her first I brought the subject up, just in case, and was delighted when she did not know what the word 'circumcision' meant!
My sister lives in England, and when she was expecting her first I brought the subject up, just in case, and was delighted when she did not know what the word 'circumcision' meant!







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I know now that I have made the decision to not allow genital checks (for now) I dont worry as much at visits.