Embarrassed, but...

[TiredX2]

Any suggestions of "sex" books? Not so much as getting comfortable with your partner (lol) but more adding excitement. DH & I have two kids in the bed, momma still nursing (and not cycling) and need a bit of "help" that doesn't take $$$ or tons of time or space.

TIA,
Kay

PS Wouldn't mind suggestions of women's erotica while you're at it

[kama'aina mama]

Just a note; Threads of this nature have been removed in the past. The subject is not forbidden I think it had to do with posting links to sites that are not compatable to our "Family Friendly" commitment. So, please, share what you know, try to describe it without crossing 'the line' and if all else fails PM the OP... but try to post what you know for everyone in a way that it can stay up!!!

That said, one of my sisters had either a book or a game that was designed just to help get intimacy back on track. It had things like "Give your partner a foot massage for at least 30 minutes" on up to stuff that was racy enough she wouldn't tell me! I will ask her if she remembers the name and post it here.

[TiredX2]

Thanks, I'd appreciate the info.

Just book titles is fine with me, no steamy details needed (well, not steamy enough to get kicked off the board!).

Thanks,
Kay

[momto l&a]

101 night of Romance. I think thats the right title, it about doing some special things to spice up life.

[Elphaba]

the 101 nights of romance book is cool, and it has a companion or sequel or whatever you want to call it called 101 nights of great sex. each page is a sealed envelope and you're supposed to take turns extracting pages and then completing the tasks!

[Elphaba]

oh, this isn't erotica per se, but jennifer crusie's books all have fantastic sex scenes.

[Jennifer Z]

Originally posted by Elphaba
each page is a sealed envelope and you're supposed to take turns extracting pages and then completing the tasks!

Oh...that brought back memories.

Dh & I got this years ago. We were all excited about doing the "exercises". I can remember the first night we went to rip out an activity..and ended up ripping out about 5 of them because there was "NO WAY" lol. I can't remember what they all were, but I remember one involved a kid's wading pool and a lot of cooking oil. Dh HATES oil on his skin, won't even put on hand lotion because it unnerves him.....that was a big ole "NO effing WAY". I think it is on the bookshelf waiting for us to pull out some more envelopes. :LOL

[TiredX2]

Dh & I got this years ago. We were all excited about doing the "exercises". I can remember the first night we went to rip out an activity..and ended up ripping out about 5 of them because there was "NO WAY" lol. I can't remember what they all were, but I remember one involved a kid's wading pool and a lot of cooking oil. Dh HATES oil on his skin, won't even put on hand lotion because it unnerves him.....that was a big ole "NO effing WAY". I think it is on the bookshelf waiting for us to pull out some more envelopes.

I always consider that book first, but for some reason that's what I think would happen here too. ANd, of course, I've heard there is some lengthy prep with some of them. I guess we are more the quickie couple at this point.

[DaryLLL]

Mars and Venus in the Bedroom. Not erotica, but gets into the heads of a couple and works on how to keep things fun, stimulating and respectful of both partners.