This was sorta xposted in my ddc.
I'm just wondering what you guys would do in this situation.
I have a midwife who works in a combination practice with ob's. She's the only midwife who delivers out of a 'baby friendly' hospital near my home (one with a birthing tub, and pro breastfeeding policies, and they don't put babies in the nursery, ect).
And we seem to click. She takes my DH seriously (which is really important to me), answers both or our questions, and spends a lot of time with us at each appointment. She seems like the right amount of 'flakey' for us.
But at both appointments she's just said a few things that were.... off.
The first appointment she told us that amnio's had a 40% chance of miscarriage, and that children born to women over 35 have a 40% chance of a chromosomal defect. The reason that amnio's are recommened for women over 35 is because the two percentages are equal.
This appointment I asked a ton of questions, and felt really reassured, because she sounded really smart. But just as she was walking out the door, she mentioned that I didn't need to take B12, because I was a vegetarian. But that's not true-- it's the opposite.
Finally... DH and I had asked her why some of the pics on the net showed the newborns being so blue-- she said that all babies are blue inside the womb, that the blood from the umbilical cord was blue. They only pinked up when they started breathing air. I belived her... but now I'm wondering if that's just bogus. Does anyone know what's really true?
And more importantly, what would you do about the midwife? Would you just assume that these things were just slips of the tounge?
I'm just wondering what you guys would do in this situation.
I have a midwife who works in a combination practice with ob's. She's the only midwife who delivers out of a 'baby friendly' hospital near my home (one with a birthing tub, and pro breastfeeding policies, and they don't put babies in the nursery, ect).
And we seem to click. She takes my DH seriously (which is really important to me), answers both or our questions, and spends a lot of time with us at each appointment. She seems like the right amount of 'flakey' for us.
But at both appointments she's just said a few things that were.... off.
The first appointment she told us that amnio's had a 40% chance of miscarriage, and that children born to women over 35 have a 40% chance of a chromosomal defect. The reason that amnio's are recommened for women over 35 is because the two percentages are equal.
This appointment I asked a ton of questions, and felt really reassured, because she sounded really smart. But just as she was walking out the door, she mentioned that I didn't need to take B12, because I was a vegetarian. But that's not true-- it's the opposite.
Finally... DH and I had asked her why some of the pics on the net showed the newborns being so blue-- she said that all babies are blue inside the womb, that the blood from the umbilical cord was blue. They only pinked up when they started breathing air. I belived her... but now I'm wondering if that's just bogus. Does anyone know what's really true?
And more importantly, what would you do about the midwife? Would you just assume that these things were just slips of the tounge?






