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Does it get any easier?

post #1 of 6
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Does anyone else feel that there is a ton of support to be had here, but every time you pop in to read, post or look for advice, all you can do is cry?

I want to be a part of this group, but every time I'm here reading, sadness just overtakes me and I cry. Disappointment, heartache, sadness, and tears. They all come flooding back. I really thought I was over it and ready to move on. Look forward to taking a journey with women who have been where I have, and some who have been where I can't even begin to imagine, and celebrate our successes and heartbreaks. I need to be with people who understand me (well, mostly.) I need to deal with it. I just hope it gets easier.
post #2 of 6
I am so sorry that you're going through all this pain right now. I hope you would be able to find some comfort here and coping will get easier. Of course people cope in different ways and if it is easier for you not to be here, that is totally normal as well. You'll find what works for you in time...
I think one thng that helps me cope is thinking every day about all the things I am grateful for like my husband, my family etc... It really gives me more resolve to go forward. I hope you find your way too...
post #3 of 6
looking at your signature - I think we're in a really similar situation. both TTC for a long time (summer 07) and a loss. I am here if you need to talk...
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post #5 of 6
I am so sorry for your pain. Hope these forums can give you some comfort.
post #6 of 6
Yes, it will get easier...and then harder. I find it goes in cycles. A loss does change everything. There are so many times when I lash out for that lost time, time filled with hope and joy, that was shattered, and just put me that much "farther behind". There are times I take a break from mdc, there are times I sob and grieve and let myself find some healing/solace thru the grief, then there are times when I'm comforted by the kind, supportive women here. Take it day by day...moment by moment...as you deal. Perhaps avoiding some areas of the board will be particularily helpful, perhaps focusing on other areas will help. When I get too overwhelmed here...I check out "diggin' in the earth" or some other section much less emotionally volatile.
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