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Originally Posted by sages 
It is not copping out. That is assuming that a parent is giving up on the decision and passing the buck to their child. I am not afraid of my son catching measles, mumps or rubella as a child. Therefore, my ds will not get the MMR on my watch. If he gets to an age where he feels uncomfortable with my decision and is worried about his health, then he can choose to do it. Not to mention, his immune system will be stronger then and can probably handle the shot better. I don't think any of us on here would pass the decision to our child just to avoid having to make the decision!
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Right. That is what I said, also. If you make the decision such as you outlined above, then it's not at all a cop out. You made an informed choice. I said that.
If you decide to not do it because you have made the medical decision based on your best judgement and they DO decide to do it later as an adult, that's great.
But a post above had me wonder what was behind the recommendation to wait and I was commenting on it because they were not quite clear. All they said was
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| My personal opinion is to let him reach adulthood so that he can decide for himself when/if he wants to get it. I realize that's not an answer you were looking for here, so sorry if that wasn't very helpful. |
Not sure I wan to assume what was leading the person to wait which is also why I said, "
But perhaps I am misunderstanding this recommendation." Which is ALSO what you said,
"That is assuming that a parent is giving up on the decision and passing the buck to their child. " For someone in the position as the OP, who sounds like isn't sure about things, it could send something of a mixed message if they are being advised to just defer the decision without some additional info (like you took the time to outline).
So we are saying the same thing.
