There's nothing I can say except that my heart is breaking for your family. I know there's nothing that can really comfort you right now, but know that I'm thinking about you. Your family will be in my prayers. I'm sure he was beautiful.
My heart and prayers extend to you at this time. My mom experienced the stillbirth of my brother at 38 weeks. That was 23 years ago and we still feel the loss of it as a family. I'm so sorry that the pain and sadness doesn't go away, but I hope that you find the brightness and intensity of it fades and that together as a couple you find strength in your love for each other.
I've been thinking about you. I wanted to share this website with you, its all written by moms who have been there: http://www.glowinthewoods.com/
I'm hoping for as much peace as possible for you both.