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post #41 of 59
Well, we went today. It was interesting- very laid back. The main guy (is it Rev?) is on vacation so we will be going back next week to get a feel for how it usually is. Overall, I liked it. The only part I wasn't to keen on was the singing but it only happens twice so I can deal.
post #42 of 59
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I glad you went and liked it overall.

Did you find out what the "Path to the Collective Moon" is? I've never heard of that myself and now I'm curious!
post #43 of 59
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I glad you went and liked it overall.

Did you find out what the "Path to the Collective Moon" is? I've never heard of that myself and now I'm curious!
It's some kind of Pagan Thing. This is all I can find: http://www.geocities.com/pathofthemoon/
post #44 of 59
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I see. So it is a group with on-going events held at the UU church and not the name of one specific event as I had thought. Thanks for the link, whiddle!
post #45 of 59
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Yesterday evening I went to this interdenominational service celebrating gay marriage at a local UCC/Congregational church. I mainly went because my minister was one of the people speaking. At first, I must admit I was slightly uncomfortable, but I enjoyed listening to most of the speakers and I reminded myself to "decode". Decoding is the word our minister uses for listening for the truth or meaning behind the words other denominations may use instead of just rejecting the words themselves automatically. I sang along with all the hymns and the only thing I did not do was join in the unison reading that included the words "I believe in God".

I think it was on this forum that someone joked about some UCC churches where UCC could stand for "Unitarians Considering Christ". I'm sure that is true for some UCC churches, and we have been talking recently on this thread about UUs who are also Christian and how some UU churches are more Christian than others. Attending this UCC church last night illustrated to me just how large the chasm actually is between UU and liberal Christian denominations, or at least between my UU church and this UCC church. Everything from the enormous banner above the pulpit reading "He is Risen" to the stained glass window images, to the almost constant use of the word God by virtually every speaker and in every hymn, song, and reading made it abundantly clear to me that I did not belong there. Not that there is anything wrong with any of this - it just does not work for me. I am so, so grateful for the existence of a religion, and especially a church, where I do belong.
post #46 of 59
I went to my first UU service and I felt like I belonged for the first time in 10 years!

I was raised in a very evangelical family in the midwest. ALL of my extended family are extremely conservative and evangelical. After I went away from college, I found myself drifting further and further from the rigid and superstitious views I had been taught all of my life. Religion and "the church" in general as presented in our culture and the media have begun to make me so uncomfortable, and yet I still yearn for a spiritual connection for myself, and for my family. And so I found a local UU church and tried it out. It was wonderful! I met so many fabulous people. Warm and friendly, and just lovely all around. I can't wait to learn more about it all, and, for the first time in a loooooong time, I can't wait to get back to church
post #47 of 59
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That's wonderful, Tammy! I'm so happy for you. :
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post #48 of 59
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I do think the Canadian culture defaults to Christianity and Christian celebrations even more than the US.
I have to say I disagree with this. Having lived in the US for a while, and having witnessed the changes there over the past decade, I would have to say that the US is a more overtly Christian/religious nation than Canada. Religious pluralism is an important component of our politics and national identity. I couldn't, for example, tell you the religious affiliation of our Prime Minister or our Govenor General. I have no idea (and no interest in) the religious life of our national leaders and most Canadians feel the same.

While our census shows a similar percentage of self-identified Christians, a fairly recent Gallop poll showed about 1/2 as many Canadians as Americans identified religion as very important in our lives.

Christian holidays are statutory holidays here but moreso from a cultural than religious perspective. We also still recognize Boxing Day, and Queen Victoria's birthday - we just like holidays

I attend a UU church and rarely does Christianity come into play in our services. The traditional celebration in December is Solstice rather than Christmas. Easter service was about renewal. In fact, it has been my experience that the church goes out of its way to keep Christian influences minimal in favour of other religions.
post #49 of 59
I am also in Canada and my experience has been similar to that of Karen's re: Christian influences in Canadian UU congregations.

Congrats Tammy!

Adele, sounds like you had an interesting a affirming evening. Decoding got me thinking.

Best of luck on your journey Whiddle.
post #50 of 59
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Thank you Karen and Stargirl for sharing your Canadian perspectives.

As someone who celebrates "Christian" holidays in an entirely secular way, I can certainly see how having those holidays as statutory holidays can be just cultural. I also am not surprised that far more people in the US consider religion to be very important in their lives. But that was kind of my point actually. Because religion is not considered very important (or as important) in Canada, it seems like the attitude is that it does not matter that these holidays come from Christian traditions. (And yes I know the actual celebrations come from much older pre-Christian traditions, but the holidays are considered Christian now). It sounds like it is sort of assumed that no one should have any problem with these holidays being nationalized because they aren't really religious holidays (anymore). I wonder how people who are other religions such as Muslim or Jewish feel about it. I was wondering if the secular culture can just kind of default to Christian and that is OK, because the majority of people don't feel strongly about any religion, Christian or not. Or maybe the majority of Canadians really don't associate those holidays with Christianity at all anymore, and it is just my US perspective that has trouble seeing that.

In any case, I was obviously completely wrong in speculating that Unitarian churches in Canada may lean more toward Christianity. Thank you for correcting that misconception. I notice that both of you refer to your churches as UU. I attend the First Unitarian Church of Des Moines, but we think of ourselves as Unitarian Universalist rather than just Unitarian. Is that how you think of yourselves as well?
post #51 of 59
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Thank you Karen and Stargirl for sharing your Canadian perspectives.

As someone who celebrates "Christian" holidays in an entirely secular way, I can certainly see how having those holidays as statutory holidays can be just cultural. I also am not surprised that far more people in the US consider religion to be very important in their lives. But that was kind of my point actually. Because religion is not considered very important (or as important) in Canada, it seems like the attitude is that it does not matter that these holidays come from Christian traditions. (And yes I know the actual celebrations come from much older pre-Christian traditions, but the holidays are considered Christian now). It sounds like it is sort of assumed that no one should have any problem with these holidays being nationalized because they aren't really religious holidays (anymore). I wonder how people who are other religions such as Muslim or Jewish feel about it. I was wondering if the secular culture can just kind of default to Christian and that is OK, because the majority of people don't feel strongly about any religion, Christian or not. Or maybe the majority of Canadians really don't associate those holidays with Christianity at all anymore, and it is just my US perspective that has trouble seeing that.

In any case, I was obviously completely wrong in speculating that Unitarian churches in Canada may lean more toward Christianity. Thank you for correcting that misconception. I notice that both of you refer to your churches as UU. I attend the First Unitarian Church of Des Moines, but we think of ourselves as Unitarian Universalist rather than just Unitarian. Is that how you think of yourselves as well?
We identify as Universalist Unitarian. The Canadian Unitarian Council merged with the Universalists in Canada at the same time they did in the US (early 60's) so I would think that our church structure is much the same as what is common in the US, despite the fact that for historical reasons many churches are called ABC Unitarian Church.

The idea of whether the secular culture defaults to Christianity is an interesting one. I think that there are cultural/political differences in Canada that may make it less onerous for non-Christian religions but it is still important to be senstive.
Canada has a Charter of Rights and Freedoms which prohobits among other things discrimination on the basis of religion, gender, race, language, age or sexual orientation. As a result of that our employment act requires things like reasonable accomodations for employees to practise their religions (dress, time to pray, days off for non-christian religous observations) and this has for the most part been upheld by our Supreme Court.

Canada has a more pluralistic approach in many ways. Unlike the melting pot idea of the US where the goal is to have people identify first as American, Canada's approach is more of a tapestry where the individual's culture of origin is respected and honoured. That's the ideal - obviously it doesn't happen that way all the time, but that is the cultural foundation.

hth
Karen
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We identify as Universalist Unitarian. The Canadian Unitarian Council merged with the Universalists in Canada at the same time they did in the US (early 60's) so I would think that our church structure is much the same as what is common in the US, despite the fact that for historical reasons many churches are called ABC Unitarian Church.

The idea of whether the secular culture defaults to Christianity is an interesting one. I think that there are cultural/political differences in Canada that may make it less onerous for non-Christian religions but it is still important to be senstive.
Canada has a Charter of Rights and Freedoms which prohobits among other things discrimination on the basis of religion, gender, race, language, age or sexual orientation. As a result of that our employment act requires things like reasonable accomodations for employees to practise their religions (dress, time to pray, days off for non-christian religous observations) and this has for the most part been upheld by our Supreme Court.

Canada has a more pluralistic approach in many ways. Unlike the melting pot idea of the US where the goal is to have people identify first as American, Canada's approach is more of a tapestry where the individual's culture of origin is respected and honoured. That's the ideal - obviously it doesn't happen that way all the time, but that is the cultural foundation.

hth
Karen
Thank you for this great information. That is a very perceptive point about how America has its "melting pot" view and that differs from the Canadian view. You have given me a lot to think about.
post #53 of 59
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I love this video. Denny and Patrick are members of my church and that is our minister in the video. This almost makes me :.
post #54 of 59
very sweet video! : I was born and raised in Iowa, with many of my relatives still residing there or coming back for family reunions. I was proud to see it as one of the first states to take that important step towards equal rights for all.
post #55 of 59
Ok UU mamas, I have a question for you. As someone newly interested in learning all about UU, can you share your favorite links for information to a newbie? Thanks!
post #56 of 59
I always forget to find this thread! So, I'm late joining as usual and subbing in time for May

Has anyone noticed a plethora of UU puns? I think they are soooo cUUte Wanna share some UU've seen? C'monnnn........UU know UU wanna....
post #57 of 59
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Ok UU mamas, I have a question for you. As someone newly interested in learning all about UU, can you share your favorite links for information to a newbie? Thanks!
Well, it has become tradition here (or maybe just boringly repetitive) to direct newbies to the Unitarian Universalist Association web page. This web page really is the single best source on the internet for an introduction to UU, IMO. Just click on the Visitors button and then skip Find a Congregation for now and start working your way down the menu on the left.

From there, you can go in many different directions. You can go back to the Find a Congregation link and see if there is a UU congregation or congregations near you. If so, you can check out their web pages and get a perspective on UU specific to that church.

If you are interested in a more in depth (and non-computer-based) introduction, my recommendation of choice is A Chosen Faith by John Buehrens and Forrest Church. The UUA web site also has an online book store, which you can browse for other good introductory books.

Here is a link to the UUA magazine's web page: UUWorld You can find tons of interesting articles there.

And finally, just for fun, here is a web page with literally hundreds of UU quotations. I got a few of my PC Banner quotes from here.

As always, feel free to ask any questions you might have on this thread. We love to talk about UU. Good luck on your spiritual journey! :
post #58 of 59
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I always forget to find this thread! So, I'm late joining as usual and subbing in time for May

Has anyone noticed a plethora of UU puns? I think they are soooo cUUte Wanna share some UU've seen? C'monnnn........UU know UU wanna....
:

What a great idea! I know I have heard lots of these but my mind is distressingly blank right now. : I'm looking forward to other people's UUisms.
post #59 of 59
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Time for a new monthly UU thread! Please come join us on the May Thread!
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