|All I keep coming back to is a woman in my last DDC who was told she was having a girl. She had pink/girly EVERYTHING. Baby came out a boy. I think I would have such a hard time bonding and would likely mourn for awhile over the baby girl/boy I "lost", kwim? We've always found out before, but I just cannot imagine finding out now.
That's the main reason we are not finding out either. I can't imagine them being wrong and having my mind set on having a certain gender and have to deal with that whole issue when I should be bonding with my baby. We don't care which sex we have......but I just don't want to get my mind set on having one or the other prematurely. The other reason is that we didn't find out with our first and I think it gave me that extra strength to push her out in the end because I wanted to know if she was a boy or girl. With no pain meds I try to take any motivation I can find
I will give you, though, that trying to shop for things that are non-gender specific isn't as fun but the above to issues are too big for me to ignore in my personal situation.