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post #1 of 13
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I'm seriously considering cloth diapering our baby. Unfortunately the only people I know who cloth diapered their children did so 50+ years ago. And everything I read on the internet references things I don't get.....
When you soak a cloth diaper what do you soak it in? For how long?
For poop diapers, do you have to wipe the poop off first? (I know this is probably a dumb one)
What are the best diapers to use?
Do you wash them in normal soap? Use something special to get the smell out?
Help a girl out here.
post #2 of 13
I don't ever soak diapers. I think the only reason you would want to soak diapers is if you don't wash frequently and are worried about the stink setting in, if that makes sense.

For exclusive breastfed babies, you don't need to do anything for the poop. It dissolves completely in water. For babies who are eating some/all solids, you need to remove the solid clumps by either rolling them off into the toilet (this works best with pocket diapers that have an inner lining of fleece), scraping them off with toilet paper, or getting a diaper sprayer to rinse the diaper off with.

The best diapers is all a matter of opinion! Each mama has a different opinion, and her opinion often varies from baby to baby! I personally love pocket diapers because they're not intimidating to my husband or family members, they're nice and trim and yet very absorbant (we never have leaks, really), and I find them easy to clean (they don't require as much drying time as all-in-ones, for example). That said, there are other mams who absolutely love their prefolds and covers, or their all-in-ones, or fitteds and covers, etc. You have to find what works for you!

Jillian's drawer has a couple helpful tutorials that might help you decide what fits your needs best: http://www.jilliansdrawers.com/newtocloth

You have to make sure the detergent you use is enzyme- and fragrance-free. I personally use Charlie's Soap and absolutely love it. I find it has been a great change for us, even for our regular clothes. They are much cleaner and softer than when I was using Tide.

Here's a helpful detergent chart: http://diaperjungle.com/detergent-chart.html

Keep asking questions! It can be intimidating at first, but once you jump in, you'll get the hang of it. And I really do think cloth diapering is fun!!
post #3 of 13
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Originally Posted by viviensmama View Post
I'm seriously considering cloth diapering our baby. Unfortunately the only people I know who cloth diapered their children did so 50+ years ago. And everything I read on the internet references things I don't get.....
When you soak a cloth diaper what do you soak it in? For how long?
For poop diapers, do you have to wipe the poop off first? (I know this is probably a dumb one)
What are the best diapers to use?
Do you wash them in normal soap? Use something special to get the smell out?
Help a girl out here.
I don't soak diapers. I also don't do anything special with the poop. While baby is still getting only breastmilk or formula, nothing at all needs to be done with poop. It's water soluble, and it'll all come out in the laundry all by itself. Once baby starts solid foods, the poop will start to look more like real-people poop-- just roll off the solid part into the toilet, and the rest will come out on its own.

I wash them in normal detergent. There are all kinds of opinions out there about which detergents are best, and a lot of mamas who swear by them. A lot of people will insist you need a special natural detergent. I've used almost anything they sell, in four and a half years of diapering, and I've found that the ordinary conventional detergents work just fine, and there's nothing in them that bothered my kiddos or the diapers, except I did find that Tide was a little harsh and bothered DD1's skin. The natural detergents never seemed to work as well, over time, for us. But try them if you want to.

Here's what I do:
1. Put wet and dirty diapers in a dry pail with a bag liner. You can get a nice nylon bag or two, and just wash it with the diapers. For a pail, just use an ordinary kitchen trash can with a lid. If the lid fits loosely, that's best-- the diapers can dry out a bit, and won't smell. I keep my pail in my bathroom, and it only smells if I wait too long to wash, like more than five days.

2. When the pail is full, dump the bag's contents into the washer, and throw the bag in too. Run a cold rinse cycle to get most of the yuck out. Then do a long hot wash cycle with an extra rinse, using your chosen detergent. Don't use too much detergent, or it won't rinse out clean. The extra rinse is to make sure the detergent is all rinsed out.

3. Don't use fabric softener. It can make your diapers less absorbent. (Avoid rash creams, for the same reason.) Bleach is all right occasionally, but it's a bad choice environmentally speaking, and over time it makes your diapers wear out faster. Some people swear by baking soda, vinegar, or any number of other additives to the wash. Try them if you want. I've never found them necessary.

4. Take a diaper out and smell. If it smells clean, it is. If it doesn't, run another wash.

5. Dry in the dryer. The elastic on your covers and/or pocket diapers will last longer if you hang those to dry, but the dryer is fine too.

If you have hard well water, or if you choose diapers made of synthetic fabrics, the process can be more fiddly. In that case, you experiment with detergents and with your wash cycles until you find what works.

Don't fuss about stains. They don't mean the diaper isn't clean, and they are a fact of live with poop. If the diaper smells clean, the stain is just a stain. If they bug you, try hydrogen peroxide. Oxi Clean is great. You can also wet the diaper and lay it in bright sun, and the sun bleaches the stain out. But you can also just have stains. That's what I do.
post #4 of 13
Thread Starter 
Thank you ladies so much for not making me feel stupid!
Gosh, after all that it seems like cloth will be way easier than I expected.
Nothing could be as bad as the way our grandmothers did it back when you were supposed to boil them on the stove!
post #5 of 13
THANK YOU for this thread! That Jillian's Drawer link was incredibly helpful to this newbie who was still trying to figure out what the different types were!
post #6 of 13
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Originally Posted by Llyra View Post
3. Don't use fabric softener. It can make your diapers less absorbent. (Avoid rash creams, for the same reason.) Bleach is all right occasionally, but it's a bad choice environmentally speaking, and over time it makes your diapers wear out faster. Some people swear by baking soda, vinegar, or any number of other additives to the wash. Try them if you want. I've never found them necessary.
Another new CD mom (Thanks for this thread!!!)

What if your baby gets diaper rash? You said not to use creams...what's the alternative?
post #7 of 13
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Originally Posted by AFWife View Post
Another new CD mom (Thanks for this thread!!!)

What if your baby gets diaper rash? You said not to use creams...what's the alternative?
You can use a cream if you put a liner in between the baby and the diaper, but I have found that leaving baby naked and open to air does more for the skin than creams do anyway.
post #8 of 13
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Originally Posted by Agatha_Ann View Post
You can use a cream if you put a liner in between the baby and the diaper, but I have found that leaving baby naked and open to air does more for the skin than creams do anyway.
Open air is great for rashes, no matter what kinds of diapers you choose! There are some creams and diaper sticks that you don't need to use a liner with. We don't normally use a liner and do use rash sticks without any problems.

PP gave you some great advice about washing, etc.!
It's also true that there's no one best kind or brand of diaper. Think about what features are most important for you and narrow it down from there.
post #9 of 13
small words:

Not hard
expect mistakes, it part of the learning curve
routine is key
no soaking needed
reduced toxins on baby
today's washing machines make it both easy and water conscious friendly unlike the debate of 20 years ago when I began my first diapering experience.
poop happens -- even with the very best routines or with disposables -- its part of diapering, expect it and you won't be surprised or feel like your not doing something corretly.
boiling only needed when you have to strip them from buildup.
always tuck eveything into the diapers to avoid compression leaks.
simple prefolds work just as nicely good in most cases as a high end diaper -- its usually a matter of convenience.
Know that everyone goes into it learning! No experts first time around.
post #10 of 13
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Originally Posted by AFWife View Post
Another new CD mom (Thanks for this thread!!!)

What if your baby gets diaper rash? You said not to use creams...what's the alternative?
The purpose of the barrier creams that contain zinc oxide is to make a moisture-proof coating between clean skin and the wet diaper, so that baby's skin is not irritated by constant wetness. The trouble is that the zinc oxide gets on the diaper, and makes the diaper itself water-resistant, which is the last thing you want a diaper to be. Some also contain oils derived from fish, which will give your diapers a nice fishy smell.

The solution is to find some other way to keep baby's skin dry while it heals. Very frequent changing is the usual answer, and plenty of time to lie around bare. There are also creams that don't contain moisture-barrier ingredients that can be very soothing to irritated skin, like the PP mentioned. Or you can use a diaper liner to keep the cream off baby's skin, if you feel you must use barrier cream. There are flushable diaper liners that work very well in this case.
post #11 of 13
You don't soak diapers. Rinse poop off in the toilet with a mini-shower. Just use regular detergent but the important thing is to make sure it all rinses out.
post #12 of 13
Just one more thing to add that helps us - my ds is 2 but does not always have solid poo, so we like to use diaper liners. We've used both flushable and fleece. The flushable just does in the toilet with the solids. The fleece is nice because the poop comes off easier than it does from natural fibers (ie - I use a fleece liner with my prefolds, especially if I know my ds will poop!)...and I also use either liner if we need a diaper rash cream for some reason. Because my son has food allergies, he gets rashes sometimes and I really like to use Burt's Bees or Weleda, but both need a liner. If he's just a little red, but needs a diaper, I use Angel Baby Bottom Balm and it works nicely - doesn't need a liner.
post #13 of 13
*raises hand*

Uhm...liners? Where do I get liners? (disposable and reusable)
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