I've given birth twice at Overlake. I can't remember who my OB was with dd1. I honestly was't very naturally minded at that time, and I'm not sure I could tell much about the birth other than it resulted in my dd being born. I DO remember that I had heard to let myself tear naturally vs. having an episiotomy done. Well, I started to tear and the OB told me as he was giving me the stinking episiotomy! I didn't even get a choice. I recovered slowly from that and it really stunk. With dd2, I was shuttled off to Overlake when my HB plans were derailed. My water had broken and I never went into labor, so I ended up with an induction. My MW let me go as long as possible, and we tried all sorts of things to get labor going naturally, but finally I had to go to the hospital :( . I have Group Health, so I did get the GH midwives. The first one I got, though, was frustrated that I had come in on such short notice. I could tell that they had probably been very busy that night. She was very short/ rude with me, and it was rather upsetting considering I had planned a completely different birth from the get go. Nobody talked to me much and I ended up with an epi. I realized later I got the epi while in transition, and I was annoyed because if I'd just had someone there to remind me how close I was, I probably could have made it naturally. Nobody checked me before giving me the epi, either, which I didn't realize until I looked back on the situation. Oh well. I was also upset because nobody thought to show me my baby when she was born- everyone else in the room was looking at her, getting her cleaned up, commenting on her dark hair, etc.. I was trying to ask to see her, but I felt weak and my voice was weak. Finally I started crying and someone showed her to me @@. They did seem supportive of my wanting to nurse her right away, which was good.
I will say that the MW I had the day after the birth was wonderful. She talked with my DH for a long time about co sleeping. Dh is very narrow minded and hates the idea of co sleeping because he wants the kids to be independent, so I was really grateful with her for that. Dh was being rather smug over our ending up in the hospital over our planned hb- it took me so long to get him to agree to the darn HB because it would be "messy" @@. She was very cheery and supportive of my bfing, as well. It's too bad I'm awful with names, because if I end up in the hospital and not the birth center as planned with this little one due in Jan, I'll be back at Overlake. I might have to do some more research! If the mw's have bios online I may remember their pictures.
Anyway, sorry if this got long- winded. I would just suggest to others that they need to make their demands known.
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