Is it just me or does anone else NOT want to....

[SunShineSally]

DTD??? I have NO urge to DTD with Dp I love him so much and cannot wait to start our lives together. and he wants to adopt my Ds after the wedding, we are having this new baby and going to be getting out of my mothers house before the new one gets here. I still love to snuggle with him at night. we still talk (or I complain and he is okay with it he does understand as best as a guy can) he is doing everything I have asked him to and all that good stuff. But still i do not want to DTD not one bit and that is not like me at all I feel so bad! Does anyone else feel that way??

[DJ's_Girl]

I don't. Especially now that I am mad at him though.

[Sleepyheaded_Mama]

Oh for sure, but I am finding it difficult to like much of anything about him at the moment, so that may play a roll in my lack of interest.

Also, eerily enough, it seems like my beloved pregnancy signs/symptoms (s/s) seriously decrease for about 24 hours after we DTD and that kind of creeps me out. We have only DTD twice since the BFP, and last night I instigated.

[SunShineSally]

Originally Posted by Sleepyheaded_Mama

We have only DTD twice since the BFP, and last night I instigated.

We only have once and it has been a few weeks now and he instigated and It was the day after we found out!!!!! I wouldn't worry to much about your symptoms going away as mine are all over here then not here it was the same with Ds except they are so much stronger this time maybe it is a girl then "they say" that girls take a lot out of you includeing your beauty and I am looking pretty rough already maybe because I cannot sleep!

[ursusarctos]

We haven't dtd at all for over a week now... first we were both violently ill with food poisoning and then I got the BFP on Friday (though it feels much longer ago). I don't actually feel the urge, which is unusual for me. Usually I'm the one jumping DP I am very satisfied with intense cuddles, which he is also happy with. And honestly, I'm a little scared of disturbing that area with penetration right now even if it supposedly doesn't matter.
Actually I wonder how much we're going to dtd at all in the next long while - if I'm so content with cuddles and he's his usual low-sex-drive self I don't see who's going to be initiating. Which could be an issue. In fact I'm really a bit scared about it. Our non-corresponding sex drives have always been THE issue for me. What if he finds it impossible to become aroused by my pregnant body? Or isn't interested in having slow, intimate, emotional sex (which is the only kind of sex I can picture wanting right now)? *worry* Sigh, I've got to relax... Not in my control, not in my control...

[MamaZoZo]

Feeling like I'm going to throw up, and being tired and .... well you get the picture. Let's just say DTD is the LAST thing on my mind right now. Can I add headaches to my preggo symptoms? Who knew they'd wrack up so fast?

[SunShineSally]

Originally Posted by MamaZoZo

Feeling like I'm going to throw up, and being tired and .... well you get the picture. Let's just say DTD is the LAST thing on my mind right now. Can I add headaches to my preggo symptoms? Who knew they'd wrack up so fast?

right this timw is sooooooooo different for me with Ds I had NO symptoms except ONE day I heaved but nothing came up now I am SOOOO tired, feeling the urge to puke and cannot poo and ect...... It is the last thing I want to do but I know he has made a comment or two about no deed being done he is being good about it though. and he even said wow you are already haveing symptoms! I said yeah I know I felt none the last time. I also wonder will he want me when I am all big belly perggo! I did not know him when I was pregnant with Ds so I am not sure how it will be??

[ShwarmaQueen]

Popping over from Nov DDC to say that I've been the same way w/ both my pregnancies. It's hormonal I believe...though personally sometime in the 2nd trimester I usually become like a rabbit (out of my normal character even)...so hang in there! Really though, I wore my poor DH out DTD while preggo w/ DD!

[Jane]

I don't know, I'm feeling the opposite - very needy.

[Brisen]

My symptoms aren't too bad. I'm not really feeling any different, but once anything is started, I really respond. Everything is, like, 10 times better. Of course, dh went and got sick this week and has been exhausted and not up to anything.

[Andee]

Originally Posted by Brisen

My symptoms aren't too bad. I'm not really feeling any different, but once anything is started, I really respond. Everything is, like, 10 times better.

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[MamaZoZo]

I'll make up for it in my second trimester.. that's the fun one with all the awesome dreams!!

[Mama_2_Boy]

With DS I couldn't get enough! This time around...forget it and that is so unlike me. I feel alot of things different this time, just my entire "being" feels weird. I'm finding myself easily on edge and ready to snap some days. Very anxious at times.

[SunShineSally]

Originally Posted by Mama_2_Boy

With DS I couldn't get enough! This time around...forget it and that is so unlike me. I feel alot of things different this time, just my entire "being" feels weird. I'm finding myself easily on edge and ready to snap some days. Very anxious at times.

I am exactly the same I snapped at Dp today so bad just because he didn't pick up all the cat toys before I vaccumed! I feel so bad but at the time it is reasonable in my mind like "how could he" or that it just seems so darn rude! but in reality it isn't the worst is I am the first pregnant person he ahs ever really been around and I am a compleate mess!