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post #181 of 1189
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First you should sneak off and do something you've been wanting to do that you felt guilty about taking the time for. Then you should do something that involves travel, whether that is a trip you have been putting off or something fun, I'm not sure, I just get 'travel.' The 3rd thing I have is an image that can be interpreted as working in something related to helping the underprivileged or people who are being treated unfairly, possibly in the legal system?
OH my!! I just told dh today that I want to train to be an advocate for special needs children. I haven't told anyone else about it!
post #182 of 1189
Do you see my DH getting a job? If yes, what type of job.

If I can ask a second important question, any clues on my health problems? 3 year old DS's health problems?
post #183 of 1189
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You'll do well. Is it someone else's booth, or your own?
: Thank you. It's for a WAHM business (soap & bath products). I've worked for her off & on for years, but another mom & I will have full responsibility for this particular market. I'm excited, but nervous that we just won't get enough business to make it viable.
post #184 of 1189
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Thank you for saying i would be happy in WA. I have had 3 local healers/psychics in my area tell me to move from here and that WA holds a lot of light for me. But no one had a time frame and i'm trying to see if the universe is going to guide me there this year. I am having a baby with a man from this town and he has said he wants nothing to do with the baby but i worry that when she is born he will change his mind and then i won't be able to move. What do you think along those lines?
If it was me, I'd move now. Since he hasn't bothered to be around, why give him that much control over your life? There's a real man out there looking for you. Help him find you.

Any man who can help make a baby but not give a rip what happens to it doesn't deserve this much consideration, imo. If he changes his mind later, then let him worry about how to get to WA. : (FWIW, dh just adopted ds last week and his bio dad has never met him once. He's 12. Waiting around for a man who 'might' change his mind is a big waste of your time.)

I've BTDT. It isn't fair to you or your baby to put your life on hold while you wait for this guy.
post #185 of 1189
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Do you do anything with plants or animals?

What about costuming? I have no idea where I'm going with this or why it popped into my head, so tell me if it means anything to you.
All hobbies. Hmm....
post #186 of 1189
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Originally Posted by Dia View Post
Am I with the wrong person?

If not, are we going to get through this?
I hesitate to say you're with the 'wrong' person, but I would consider this relationship a growing experience for both of you. Problem is, one is spreading the fertilizer a bit thick and the other is doing most of the growing, KWIM?

I believe everyone we meet comes into our life for a reason, but you have to remember your dp may not be ready to learn the lessons yet. You do what you can in each relationship and when you've done all you can, sometimes it's time to move on.
post #187 of 1189
Do you think I will have another baby or are we done having kids?
post #188 of 1189
Do you see anything regarding DH's job/career future? (And if you happen to see my baby's gender, I wouldn't mind knowing that either)
post #189 of 1189
Okay if you don't mind one more, this one much more important Are my 5yo DS' (Josh) behavior problems more emotional (shyness, personality, parenting?) or physical/neurological in nature (something needing to be evaluated)? I keep going back and forth on this, because his behavior gets better and then regresses regularly.
his pic
post #190 of 1189
Going to be pretty vague here, but... did what I'm worried about actually happen? And if so, is that why I'm not getting my calls returned?

Also, do you see us getting a place in the country/out of town any time soon?
post #191 of 1189
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what type of work are you doing?
I see a delay on another baby, so I guess it will be a while. No numbers are jumping out at me.
I'm in nursing school with one year left until graduation. Then I need to pick a specialty and my head and my heart are in disagreement.

Interesting about the delay on another baby. That's the current plan- to wait a while so I can finish school and get established with a new job & buy a house in 2-ish years.
Do you see all that happening?

Thanks
post #192 of 1189
Seems like you may be swamped with questions, but I'll try anyway!

Where is my career (work outside of the home, that is) going?
post #193 of 1189
Okay, that is weird. I just took one of those Myers-Briggs test things, one that actually allows "both are equally strong" as a choice. Got a result I've never gotten before, never looked at before, and it fits. Fits like the other results never did.

On the list of "good careers for this type"? Yep, child care and fashion designer.


So, are you getting anything on where I should go next? Do you see me talking to someone or reading something or....?
post #194 of 1189
are you sick of this or can i ask another/followup?
post #195 of 1189
Do dh and I ever get to have living, breathing kiddos? Yes we've had mc's in the past and haven't been pg for years. So, through adoption or natural or w/ help, do we actually get to share our home/love/life w/ a baby or babies?

What should I do for a career?

Thanks in advance. This is really neat.
post #196 of 1189
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I think he's taking his time because he wants to save up enough money to get just the right one and not cheap out.
He HAS told me that he wants to spend AT LEAST $1,000 on my engagement ring. He has the money in his bank account currently, but we're planning on looking into a different financial venture with that money. He's trying to tell me AT LEAST 6 more months, but I *think* he's just doing that to keep me on my toes and surprise me.

Am I right?

Also, how will this financial venture turn out? Should we do it?
post #197 of 1189
I don't know if you're still taking questions, but if so:

#1 We've got 4 tries with our known donor. Will one of them be successful? (If yes, and if you get any hint of gender, I don't want to know that, please. )

#2 Is DW happy with our marriage?
post #198 of 1189
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kids are home from school so I'm taking a breather, I'll be back later this evening or tomorrow AM to work on the ones I haven't answered yet or followed up on. If you think I skipped over you, I'm coming back to you, some answers popped up quicker/easier than others.
post #199 of 1189
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It was under the bed! That was fun though, thanks! I am just happy I found it.
I can see that, a bed is rectangular/box-like in shape, so that makes sense, though I totally didn't think of it at the time.

Glad you found it!
post #200 of 1189
Does he care about me?
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