Originally Posted by Avani
Thank you for saying i would be happy in WA. I have had 3 local healers/psychics in my area tell me to move from here and that WA holds a lot of light for me. But no one had a time frame and i'm trying to see if the universe is going to guide me there this year. I am having a baby with a man from this town and he has said he wants nothing to do with the baby but i worry that when she is born he will change his mind and then i won't be able to move. What do you think along those lines?
If it was me, I'd move now.
Since he hasn't bothered to be around, why give him that much control over your life? There's a real man out there looking for you. Help him find you.
Any man who can help make a baby but not give a rip what happens to it doesn't deserve this much consideration, imo. If he changes his mind later, then let him
worry about how to get to WA.
: (FWIW, dh just adopted ds last week and his bio dad has never met him once.
He's 12. Waiting around for a man who 'might' change his mind is a big waste of your time.)
I've BTDT. It isn't fair to you or your baby to put your life on hold while you wait for this guy.