Hi, I'm new to Montessori. My son just started in January. He will be four in May.
I only toured a couple schools before falling in love with the school we chose. The first school is an AMI school. When observing the classroom, I noticed that all of the children were busy working, but none of them smiled (even when I smiled at them) or talked. The room was completely quiet. I was told that the policy was to drop them off outside in the parking lot and that was it. Even on their very first day of school, the parents were not to come in. That really rubbed me the wrong way. The children at this school did seem more focused. The school felt rigid to me though.
The school we decided on is an AMS school. It has an open door policy for parents. My son has a difficult time with transitions. They are fine with me sitting quietly for the first 10 minutes each day until he is busy with his work. While all of the kids are busy working, they are playing and laughing as well. Maybe it is a bit more of the environment, it is on a farm (with a horse, donkey, goat, etc) and in the classroom, there is a bird and a guinea pig. It just has an all over more relaxed feel to it. This school had a way more relaxed and warm feel.
Is this typical of AMI vs AMS schools? Is AMS typically more relaxed while AMI focused? I'm just curious. I only toured the two schools so I only have those two to compare. I'm not saying that one is better than the other, but the school we ultimately chose was the best fit for our child and our family.
Thanks
I only toured a couple schools before falling in love with the school we chose. The first school is an AMI school. When observing the classroom, I noticed that all of the children were busy working, but none of them smiled (even when I smiled at them) or talked. The room was completely quiet. I was told that the policy was to drop them off outside in the parking lot and that was it. Even on their very first day of school, the parents were not to come in. That really rubbed me the wrong way. The children at this school did seem more focused. The school felt rigid to me though.
The school we decided on is an AMS school. It has an open door policy for parents. My son has a difficult time with transitions. They are fine with me sitting quietly for the first 10 minutes each day until he is busy with his work. While all of the kids are busy working, they are playing and laughing as well. Maybe it is a bit more of the environment, it is on a farm (with a horse, donkey, goat, etc) and in the classroom, there is a bird and a guinea pig. It just has an all over more relaxed feel to it. This school had a way more relaxed and warm feel.
Is this typical of AMI vs AMS schools? Is AMS typically more relaxed while AMI focused? I'm just curious. I only toured the two schools so I only have those two to compare. I'm not saying that one is better than the other, but the school we ultimately chose was the best fit for our child and our family.
Thanks







