both my husband and used to sleep naked. with kids in the bed the rule is that everyone has to wear underwear. its not that there is anything sexual going on, it just makes it more comfortable for the adults. The kids ovbiously would have no concept of anything being "wrong". that aside, my neighbor just told me about her brother and his daughter and wife. the little girl goes to preschool and recently told her teachers that her daddy made her sleep in bed with him and her mommy had to sleep in her bed. She got pulled out of class and the parents called in and they all had to meet with counselers and social workers. What was going on is that her mom is very pregnant, and her parents had a water bed. her mom couldn't sleep in the parents bed and so slept in the daughters twin bed, while the little girl and her dad slept in the larger water bed. It was absolutely nothing going on that should not have been happening, but if your child is anywhere near going to school, I would be extremely adamant that something needs to change. The last thing anyone needs is CPS/DHS invovlement becasue something that a little kid said was given an adult meaning.
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4/9/09 at 12:15pm