Spring MJ/Cannabis Mamas!! - Page 9

[benja]

Hey there, I'm not a tribe member but I have question I'm hoping someone might be able to help me out with.

I am dealing with a situation right now that may lead to info about me smoking and selling bud 4 yrs ago being given to a police detective who is working on a totally different case. I'm basically being threatened that if i go through with pressing charges, this person will say what i did.

Does anyone know if i can still get into trouble being that it was so long ago.
The state is Cali and I only did it a few times and smoked the rest.

Any thoughts or ideas would help, thanks.

[Mountaingirl79]

My heart goes out to you, how stressed out that must make you!

I think what that person is doing is officially called Blackmail and that is against the law as well. Probably more so. LOL And I doubt you could now be arrested for smoking/having/selling weed 4 years ago. That just sounds asinine to me.

Tell this person to stop blackmailing you, and try not to worry about it. Keep your nose clean. ( AS my dad would say) You really should be fine.

[benja]

thanks at first i wasnt worried, it was 4 years ago, i havnt smoked in more than 2 and im not in cali any more. but i did a quick google on intent to sell, and got a bit worried. there doent have to be proff of a sale to be charged with that. i planned on being honest about what i did, but now i dont know how i will answer if asked.

[benja]

..double post..

[mama516/419]

Ugh - crappy week all around ? I spent my kids bday party locked to my seat cuz recovering from the flu made me to dizzy to stand . :
JoJo I hope your doing better , from the little I know of you you seem very sweet , I lost my brother less then a year ago and still miss him terribly . DD has one memmorie of him and we bring it up all the time to try to get her to keep it .
LJ - Good luck unpacking ( one of my least fav activities ) I wish u strength
Benja I agree with PP scream black mail. Plus Cali isnt popular for prossacuting pot deals

Peace

[Jojo F.]

benja- CA statute of limitations. It was in CA so I would think it would really be no big deal- no pun intended.

Shannon- thank you, I was a different person 10 years ago. OK, I was a stupid teenager so I guess the mistakes I made should be expected.

[joyfulgrrrl]

Originally Posted by benja

thanks at first i wasnt worried, it was 4 years ago, i havnt smoked in more than 2 and im not in cali any more. but i did a quick google on intent to sell, and got a bit worried. there doent have to be proff of a sale to be charged with that. i planned on being honest about what i did, but now i dont know how i will answer if asked.

You have a right to refuse to answer questions if doing so would tend to
incriminate you. I would refuse to answer and file an obstruction of justice complaint.

[~kitnkaboodle~]

I am happy to report that I OFFICIALLY have SOLE custody of my son as of yesterday at 11:30am. I am so excited about it. I can only come on wednesday's and thursdays so I guess I'll see you all laters.

[Jojo F.]

Originally Posted by ~kitnkaboodle~

I am happy to report that I OFFICIALLY have SOLE custody of my son as of yesterday at 11:30am. I am so excited about it. I can only come on wednesday's and thursdays so I guess I'll see you all laters.

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I'm sooooo happy for you!!!!

[SleepyMamaBear]

YAY!!!! i am so happy for you!!!!!

[SleepyMamaBear]

so i have been avoiding posting, because i didnt want to bring negativity and get anyone down. but i think i need to share here.
two weeks ago i was having severe abdominal pain. i ignored it for two days. on the end of the second day i felt i should call my dr, i did she asked me to come in, i did. she sent me for a CT scan to rule our appendicitis and diverticulitis. it was neither. it was something called panniculitis. she explained it as my fat having a heart attack. lol. pretty much the good fat that surrounds my organs and protects them, died. somehow it didnt get enough blood flow, and it died. causing me great pain.
they also found a cyst on my pancreas on the CT, and my dr sent me to get an MRI to see what they could see.
the pancreatic cyst showed up on the MRI and she said she didnt feel comfortable saying "lets wait and measure it in 6 months" and has referred me to a surgeon, to talk to the surgeon a bout what we should do. best case scenario, the surgeon laughs and says "oh this is nothig, lets wait 6 months and re-check then" the worst case scenario, is they do surgery, remove it, and find its cancer.
i have to say i am really very scared right now.
i dont want to leave my girls with no mother. i dont want to have cancer. i dont really want surgery either.
i just want this all to go away.
the cyst has been causing me an extreme ammount of pain, as well as my fibromyalgia, that no ammount of medicine, herbal or pill, has been able to help with.
i am feeling so overwhelmed with pain, and emotions. i feel like i am not being a good enough mother to my children. and my mother is constantly reminding me what a shitty mother i am. we used to have such a great relationship. we were very close. and now we have NO relationship.
between my grandpa dying, my uncle staying here (he is a dick), this medical drama, losing my relationship with my mother... its all just so much.
i am trying to take things moment by moment, and not dwell on any one thing. but then it all just comes flooding back, and i crash again. no ammount of zoloft is pulling me out of this.
to top it off, i dont have any $ for good quality green meds, and have been relying on my sisters meds that she gets from my dd's friends dad. and while they are ok, they arent as great as the meds i normally get. plus if i did have the $ i wouldnt want to bring my grower down. she is such a wonderful woman, and she is so sensitive to negativity, and i really dont want to heap this on her.
/spillage

thanks for letting me get it all out mamas.

[Jojo F.]

Oh Tiff- a million times over. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. Healthy for you and I will be thinking of you.

Does your doctor know the cause of the panniculitis yet? Are there any underlying health issues that could lead to this? I did a quick search and found this site- panniculitis but, I'm sure you have been searching like crazy for answers.

Again, I'm so sorry. You are a wonderful mother (maybe your mom is a little jealous at what a wonderful mother you are?) You are in my thoughts and please keep us updated. And maybe your friend who is very intune could actually be of a big help to you, is there a way to ask?

[SleepyMamaBear]

its mesenteric panniculitis. alot of things i have read about it in conjunction with pancreatic cysts, does not look very promising. hence the freaking out.
thanks for the hugs. i will take as many as i can get.
my sensitive grower friend is way to sensitive, i am worried i will screw her over for a long time if i go over there. i havent even called her in weeks cause i am afraid to bring her down. i heart her, she is an amazing woman, i dont want to hurt her.

[~kitnkaboodle~]

Tiff- I'll be thinking about you. Hope everything goes ok....

Thanks for the congrats and support guys

[Mama2Rio]

tiff- you probably already know this, but it would be best to have them test for cancer sooner than later. can you get a 2nd opinion? i wouldn't want to wait 6 months. plus all that stress isn't helping you in any way, probably making you more sick. lots of hugs to you mama, hope some of the stress resolves, b/c you really have to focus on your well-being right now.

[Abismommy]

OMG! I am so stressed : My baby is constantly gassy, my almost 2yo is constantly whiny. My house looks like a hurricane went through it, I have horrible BO since BFing. I am having dental issues and horrible stomach pains and nausea. Can a mama get a break pleeeaaaase?! We have no funding towards an good quality green medicine at all. I am a green snob...lol. I hate the stuff that looks like some damn lawn mower clippings, only chronic please. Hahaha.

[Peace~*]

Oh boy~*

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[Peace~*]

So Good!

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[joyfulgrrrl]

:congrats!! :

Originally Posted by ~kitnkaboodle~

I am happy to report that I OFFICIALLY have SOLE custody of my son as of yesterday at 11:30am. I am so excited about it. I can only come on wednesday's and thursdays so I guess I'll see you all laters.

[joyfulgrrrl]

Originally Posted by SleepyMamaBear

its mesenteric panniculitis. alot of things i have read about it in conjunction with pancreatic cysts, does not look very promising. hence the freaking out.
thanks for the hugs. i will take as many as i can get.
my sensitive grower friend is way to sensitive, i am worried i will screw her over for a long time if i go over there. i havent even called her in weeks cause i am afraid to bring her down. i heart her, she is an amazing woman, i dont want to hurt her.

Hang in there, mama