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Baby Hates Solids??

post #1 of 5
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I'm trying to figure out what to do with my little dude...he's almost 9 months old now, 7 months adjusted, and although hes been on time for everything and has been showing signs of readiness for solids (ie-sitting on his own, no tongue reflex, interest in foods, etc), he refuses to try.

I tried a couple times with a week or so in between with no luck. More recently I've been trying once a day. He seems soooo hungry all the time, gets frustrated at the breast, and grabs at my food-but still, if I put anything but breastmilk in his mouth, he makes an awful face and clams up, after spitting the food out.

This is'nt a growth concern or anything like that-he's rather chunky and just a bit short for his age-but I feel bad for him and for me at this point! He wants to eat all-the-time. Its getting tiring.

I've been sticking to 2 babyfoods, stage 1, banana and applesauce. Both are fairly bland, but still have flavor, and most babies like them. We tried rice cereal as well, but since my other kids hated it with a passion, I didnt feel like pushing it. I've also tried various liquidy things from my plate and a little smoothie...trying to see if theres some particular taste that would pique his interest. No luck.

In any case, I'm trying to find out if anyone has had a similar experience with their preemie. He also seems to gag a LOT on anything other than breastmilk form the source-but its hard to tell if its because he doesnt like it or if he's got an overactive gag reflex (and maybe thats why he doesnt like food?). If you had a baby like this, did it clear up on its own? Should I take him to the ped at some point and if so, when? I just dont know what to do...I've never had this issue before!

TIA
post #2 of 5
Babies may not be ready for solids for the first year. It's not so important that you hit the "right" time frame as that you follow your child's readiness cues.
Here's a link about delaying solids.
http://www.kellymom.com/nutrition/solids/index.html
post #3 of 5
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See, thats what I dont understand though. He is ready-at least when you look at the typical cues. I mean, he even stares at us eating and grabs for the food. He's been ready for quite some time physiologically, its just...I dotn know. If he didnt act like he was starving all the time, I wouldnt really worry about it at all, but I feel bad for him
post #4 of 5
DD ate "babyfood" for about a week and then never again. She would never let us spoonfeed her anything after that. We would just give her little finger foods and she finally would feed herself those, but never touched the jarred stuff again.
post #5 of 5
i think i would go and see a ped just to chat it over. does he hold a spoon himself if you put some sweet potato on it and let him chew the spoon (whilst getting a taste of sweet potato at the same time!)?

maybe that kind of partial baby led weaning will help? i had a 36 weeker who always wanted to hold the spoon himself and did not like to be offered food. in fact, he wouldn't be offered the breast even. he'd pause and put his hands on me to make it clear he was in charge!!!!

i'm going to give my daughter a few more months and see how she is then (atm it's hard to give her vitamins even) and ask for some input at that point if necessary......
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