Hi....Ladies I'm a Mama of a beautiful 3 year old little boy. I went through the pregnancy alone after fleeing a terrible relationship. My son's father went back to his ex girlfriend and moved to San Fran. In the mean time I went through a high risk pregnancy alone. Happily alone with my unborn child. We made it through moving to Costa Rica and back before nestling into a comfortable apartment on 23rd and Madison. The day before I gave birth to my wonderful son I rode the bus to UW and was turned away false alarm. Later that night my water broke. I didn't have a car and was alone so I called a taxi and had to convience them to come get me. Seventeen hours later I gave birth to my best friend. Meanwhile his father was in the mist of a miserable situation while out of town his girlfriend aborted his baby. This caused stress on their relationship.
When my son was 8 weeks old I contacted his father via email. Told him how we were doing, sent him and picture. In a sense, I was extending the olive branch. He responded very coldly and asked for a paternity test. I got scarred of a possible battle over my little little precious child, I did not respond.
Three months later my son's father's sister-in-law contacted me and we started a friendship. Next thing you know my son's father contacted me. He was super sweet, concerned, and wanted to take Ces and I to dinner. He came up from San Fran and took us to dinner when my son was 6 months old.
The next week he left his girlfriend and moved up to Seattle and pursued a relationship with me. Though I had a bad past with him I was willing to try out of the hope of making a bigger family for my son.
Within two months my son's father had returned to the guy I had left while pregnant. He was overbearing, controlling, and manipulative.
He moved into his own apartment and demanded visiation. I was still breast feeding and his father had no experience parenting, I offered Tues and Thursday from 3-5. He accepted.
Two months later he started to date a lady a couple years old with no children. Though I would not be aware of her involvement for another 6 months.
At this point things start to get ugly. Cesar's father wanted me to discontinue breast feeding so my son could spend more time with him.
Pushing over nights.
Finally, about a year later I'm served with court documents. He is proposing that the courts take my son from me and give him sole discussing making and limit my visitation to every other weekend.
In court the judge is like what's the problem and my son's father's lawyer began an attack on the core of my character. I'm a preschool teacher, educated, well liked. My son's father's lawyer propose a parent evalutation, AND THE WILL PAY FOR IT