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4/25/09 at 10:30am
So I've posted here before and let me say I'm TOTALLY against circ-ing my unborn son. My DH is giving me a hard time about this and I he is using the "locker room" song and dance and how women will shun him.
So yesterday at work I was talking to a couple of my friends about the issue, one being a nurse, and they both said "get that baby circ'd". The nurse commenced to saying how men that aren't circ'd are disgusting and how they aren't as clean and can get cysts and blah blah blah. The other one chimed in to agree....
So I tried to make the point of how men made it thousands of years without circ-ing and seemed to be okay and I couldn't put my child through the pain and the nurse says they won't remember it...
Now I worried that maybe women will turn him away...life can be hard enough as it is.
I briefly pondered this one after an episode of "Sex and the City."
And what I decided is that if some jerk sexual partner (either male or female!) doesn't like my son's penis the way it is, then clearly that was never the right partner for him anyway. Obviously, that wouldn't be an open-minded or creative person and frankly, I'm hoping for better for my son. :