I kind of dumped a friend but really it was coming both ways. She just stopped calling and then twice said she was coming to b-day parties then I diddn't hear from her from months. Then she has called a couple of times since w/ the I haven't heard from you we should get together. She hasn't planned anything specific though so it has kind of died. I haven't called her as it seems she didn't really want to have a relationship anymore.
I have been dumped recently as well. Actually had been dumped by the same person before but usually it just happened gradually. This time I asked and was told it was just a break but it wasn't. It was extremely hurtful. I go from being very hurt to very angry. I had thought in the past I just was a bad person- not good enough- too selfish- what have you. I worked very hard to change that, but in the end it wasn't enough.
In the case of someone that just flakes out for months on end I would just let it die. If she drops off the planet then suddenly wants to get together I would be busy.
I have been dumped recently as well. Actually had been dumped by the same person before but usually it just happened gradually. This time I asked and was told it was just a break but it wasn't. It was extremely hurtful. I go from being very hurt to very angry. I had thought in the past I just was a bad person- not good enough- too selfish- what have you. I worked very hard to change that, but in the end it wasn't enough.
In the case of someone that just flakes out for months on end I would just let it die. If she drops off the planet then suddenly wants to get together I would be busy.
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