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Hmm. Dare I?

post #1 of 6
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Two of my nieces have birthdays days apart, and they're having a combined party for family. The party is next Sunday.. I'll be 37w6d. Oh, and its 3.5 hours away. My entire family lives in Seattle and we're the lone stragglers down here in PDX! So it'd be a really nice opportunity to see everyone together. But yeah, there's the whole "too close to term" thing! But really, the only "problem" would be.. what if I went into labor? Is that REALLY a realistic fear, being 3.5 hours away for just a day trip, no spending the night?

The drive isn't a big deal. We've made the round trip in one day before and its really a non-issue. I really haven't (and yes, you can hate me) gotten to where I'm uncomfortable and miserable this pregnancy and long trips in the car.. really doesn't bother me. I really don't think I'm likely to go into labor that day. I mean, sure, its possible (I was 38w4d with dd) but I'm thinking the full moon is waaay more likely! I really think that if thats the day my body and baby are ready, that my body will be smart enough to wait a few hours until after we're home to labor, right?

WDYT, would you go? If I start losing plug or see any color besides yellow on the TP (obsessive checker ) then definitely not, but otherwise...is 3 hours, for JUST a day trip a big deal?
post #2 of 6
If I had no signs of labor ahead of time, I'd go, but at the first hint of possible labor head home.

Since you're not me, however, some questions:

How would you feel if you chose not to go, but didn't go into labor for another couple of weeks?

What about if you did go, but labor was extremely fast and you couldn't make it all the way home? Or if there was an emergency and you ended up in the hospital in Seattle?

What difference would your attending/not attending/possibly having to leave in the middle of things have on family dynamics?
post #3 of 6
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Yeah, thats what I was thinking too. To answer your questions...

A little disappointed, but it wouldn't be a huge deal. I'd LIKE to go, it'd be fun, dd would be thrilled and so happy to see her cousins, but skipping wouldn't be the end of the world.

Extremely fast labor, well, I guess I wouldn't have the *home* birth I hope for, but hey, he comes out vaginally with no interventions? SWEET! I'm happy As for emergency.. I think I'd actually be okay with the hospital I'd be closest to. I don't think its all that VBAC friendly these days, but in an emergency thats not what matters. I would probably prefer it to the hospital closest to me, if only because I'm fairly familiar with their policies (myself, my brother, and most my nieces and nephews were born there!) and they're a baby friendly hospital. No risk of unnecessary separation or formula, not even c-section babies go to the nursery!

Family dynamics, well, there's no "expectation" that I come. No one would be upset with me, there'd be no drama. Having to leave in the middle of things due to labor would be "interesting" simply because "OMGZZZ!!!11!!!1 YOU'RE IN LABOR!" lol... so if I suspected that I was in early labor it'd be, "well, sorry to skip out early, but we have a long drive ahead and we don't want to get back too late" No one would have to know the truth!
post #4 of 6
I would totally go. A hospital in Seattle is SO not the worst place to walk in having a precipitous labor. It sounds like you've got the right mindset about that (remote) possibility anyway, and would be happy with the outcome.
post #5 of 6
I would go for it.
post #6 of 6
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I'm going to ask my mw what she thinks tomorrow, but we'll probably go!
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