Sunday night update.....
I was coming home after taking the kids to their dads', and I bike right past Smoothie. I stop and say hi, and he seems happy to see me (I had just done up my makeup perfect for the make-your-ex-eat-his-heart-out factor, and I had slept in curlers the night before, so, I was feeling Miss-America-cute so that was at least great--don't like to run into men we date when we look like crap!) we speak awhile and decide that perhaps we both have a free evening in front of us and could hang out. But he needs to swing by his parents' place and have a bite there, and then he says he'll call me.
The Kinky Engineer had sent me texts all day about how he really likes knowing me better and better and wants to hang out soon so I had already proposed he come by that evening for sandwhiches, beers, and to hang out. But he hadn't confirmed anything with me.
I get home and Kinkster sends me facebook messages about how he would love to see me but he has some things to do and would later be ok? I say maybe....text me or call when you know an ETA and I'll give a thumbs up or thumbs down.
This is all at like 7pm. Then there's a big huge 4 hour silent spell and I chat with friends in the states on Facebook, eat, clean up after the weekend with the byos, etc......
Then all of a sudden the phone rings. After 11pm. It's Flower Boy. He was just about to go home after a long dinner with a friend and thought about how it would be more fun to go to a Casino, actually. He remembered me telling him I was a night owl so he took a chance that I wasn't in bed yet and asked me if I'd like to join him. I said sure! He picked me up 5 minutes later (as I'm getting dressed Kinky Engineer calls and asks if it's too late to come over, that he was in the neighborhood after having a long conversation with a friend and I tell him that YES it's too late, another night perhaps) in his ridiculously expensive Mercedes AMG sportscar (men really need to learn how much of an asshole that makes them look like) and we went to a casino. We talk about our kids and what we did with them over the weeekend, while in the car. He's such a dedicated dad and that's pretty hot. Our kid are about the same ages, which is cool. I have brady bunch images floating around in my mind.
We go in and my phone rings and it's Smoothie. He wants to come over at that point. I sort of say that I didn't expect to hear from him anymore aftera certain number of hours had passed by so I just made other plans and I was out and would like to see him another night. He wished me fun and said he understood and apologized for the late call. Flower Boy and I sit down and he throws thousands on the table in exchange for chips. ( I am trying no to let my jaw drop. ) Apparently he plays blackjack and has been into it for 15 years and has a system, and asked me to just sit and look pretty.
He was just being silly, of course. But anyway, we sit for about 10 minutes and he has lost everything. He doesn't blink. He gets the rest of the money from his pocket, much less than the first sum, and gets some more chips and starts again. Then in the next 30-45 minutes, he has about 26,000 euros there in chips and I am just trying to act cool, keep my jaw off the floor.... He gives me a tour of the old parts of the hotel/casino and we leave. He has a 40 euro ticket on his car from parking at the door, which he laughs about. (After what he won, doesn't seem like a big deal to pay 40 euros in parking!)
We go to my place and....
Then....we cuddle and chat about vacation destinations we both dream of and he tells me he is taking the summer off from work entirely, starting in 3 weeks and he's sort of wondering who might take a trip with him somewhere.....? In a hint hint playful sort of way. After awhile, he leaves because he has to be at work in about 90 minutes.
When it rains, it pours, right? They all call within 30 minutes of each other. crazy boys.
Hottie Supreme must have gotten back together with the woman he lives with and was 'broken up with' when we met. I haven't heard hide nor hair from him in 10 days.