Can I just say....mmmm. yeah.
Not sure what is a UAV these days, but I think y'all get the idea!
I had a nice long day with Jester -- walked up to his house around 11, stayed til 5ish. He is incredibly easy to be with. I like him, I'm attracted to him, seems the feeling is mutual and I don't have any angst about it. It's just nice.
Though, as this year seems to be about love triangles for me...Jester's best friend (like talk on the phone at least 2x a day, hang out a lot etc best friend) is the woman who lives in the other half of the duplex I rent. They have been close friends for about 2 years, and were intimate for several months this fall....
I don't know. I reeeeeeeeeeeeeally don't want to get into something that is going to be messy and end up with anyone with hurt feelings. He is totally honest with her -- actually she called him today, while I was still lying in his bed nekkid, and she asked him if I was there, if we'd slept together...
I think if their friendship is as strong as he says it is, and if their reasons for ending the intimate side of the relationship are true and clear, it will be okay. But I'm curious, to say the least, about how things will play out. When I left his house, he was on his way to meet her to go to a yoga thing they do with friends every Sunday evening. I saw them walking up the hill to his house just a little while ago, so I'll be curious to see if he'll call me later to fill me in on that....
Did I mention that I live in a *small* town!!!!
Butterfly, it is really interesting to think about what types of relationships are the "right" thing. Jester and I talked about it some today, and the idea that we are non-exclusive until we decide otherwise. In theory, I'm okay with that, and like feeling like I can do what I want, but, in reality, I have barely any time to date, let alone date multiple people. So I need to think about how I'd *really* feel if he was actively dating other people.
At the same time, I don't want to be on a train towards co-habiting, for no reason other than that is where the train is going, yk? I'd like to have some time to flirt, date, keep my options open, enjoy feeling like a hot commodity
It is nice that Geek was direct with you. I heart direct and honest people!!
Funny though, I also feel like the same scenario (love triangle) just keeps playing out in my life, it's just that my role in the triangle keeps changing. I'm hoping there is some life lesson in here for me, somewhere, somehow, that will become clear and tangible, sooner rather than later.