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And then there's Lyle . . .

post #1 of 20
Thread Starter 
So, even though we've decided we're doing the safe thing and getting a sheltie from a reputable breeder, we went to a rescue event this weekend, just to look mind you, not to adopt. I figured it would be a conversation starter with my son -- give him a better sense of what size dogs we're looking at.

And there was Lyle. He came up on a transport from a high kill shelter in another state, on Friday (we met him on Sunday), looked all straggly and a little smelly. He was wearing a cone to keep him from bothering the site where he was neutered. 2 year old Sheltie mix (what are the odds of that huh?) with white and tan patches. He snuggled right into my son's lap, looking kind of sad and kind of sweet.

The foster mother (who had known him less than 48 hours mind you) said he was a sweetheart - medium energy, very cuddly, housebroken -- not one accident, knows basic commands and came in fat and without his hair matted. She said he was undoubtedly well cared for. We didn't even mention that we were looking at other dogs, but she jumped right in with "He's got that sweet sheltie personality -- Shelties are my favorite dog".

So, the only time we've seen this dog he was probably reeling from the changes, in his life, recovering from surgery, and in the lobby of a crowded petco. How could we possibly judge whether he's the right guy for us? Was he calm and sweet because he was overwhelmed -- will he be a holy terror in our house?

But, my son, my sweet boy whose a great judge of human character, keeps talking about him. "Mom, why are you looking at those pictures, we should just Lyle". "Lyle is the best name for a dog ever, and he's the best dog". "He's cute (about another dog whose photo I showed him) but Lyle is cuter".

He's on Petfinder, all cleaned up and looking quite handsome, and I just sent an email to his foster mom. We can't even bring a dog home for 2 more weeks, and he'll probably be gone by then. But if he isn't, do I take a chance?
post #2 of 20
I have a soft spot in my heart for rescues...they're all I've ever had. Sometimes I fantasize about getting a well bred puppy from a reputable breeder, but I haven't done it yet. Maybe someday....

Here's the thing: All dogs have their warts. It's never the rosy picture we imagine it to be. Lyle might be sweet, but I bet he barks like mad at the mailman. Or birds. Or at imaginary stuff. This puppy you want, he'll go through a chewing phase. I hope you don't wear expensive shoes...

Why did you choose a puppy from a good breeder? Chances are, you won't get those things out of Lyle.

Did you consider the benefits of adopting an adult dog (chewing, bypassing adolescence, housebreaking, etc?)

If you have doubts, think it over again.

If Lyle just tugged on your heartstrings, let him go. Channel the love and hope he stirred up into raising your puppy well, and comfort yourself with the knowledge that if he truly is so irresistible, he will go to someone who wanted an adult rescue in the first place.
post #3 of 20
i just read you other thread... i say, go for lyle.

but know that he'll probably have some quirks, as would those other dogs from the breeders.
post #4 of 20
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Originally Posted by mamallama View Post
Why did you choose a puppy from a good breeder? Chances are, you won't get those things out of Lyle.

Did you consider the benefits of adopting an adult dog (chewing, bypassing adolescence, housebreaking, etc?)
um, if you read her other thread she is looking at several older dogs that aren't house-trained

pssst.......go for lyle
post #5 of 20
Lyle! Lyle! Lyle! : :
post #6 of 20
Aww, he sounds sweet. Hopefully the foster mom can tell you how he is doing now that he's had a few days. If he was sweet and friendly even when he was probably overwhelmed with all the changes (high kill shelter, transport, neuter, and at a pet store) that is a good sign.

There's no such thing as the perfect dog, really. Each one will have some quirks to work through or manage.
post #7 of 20
I'd ask the foster mom about his temperment now.

We've had both and if it were me I'd skip the puppy stage!
post #8 of 20
Sometimes the dog you you were looking for isn't the dog who calls to your heart. (Check out my Princess in my signature. I wasn't crazy about small, white or fluffy dogs... until Princess chose me.) It sounds like Lyle's already yours... in your heart and in your son's heart.

P.S. I did a petfinder search... Lyle's got the sweetest face! Look in his eyes... :
post #9 of 20
I did a search as well and his write up says he adores children. He sounds wonderful.
post #10 of 20
I've always been chosen by my pets. Much the same way as Lyle seems to have chosen your family. I think the fact that he's still on everyone's mind speaks volumes.
post #11 of 20
I would call the foster in a few days to see how Lyle is doing, and she should have a bit better idea of what he's like, although sometimes it takes months to get the full picture once the dog is truly himself.

Our little mutt was so not what I was looking for. I like big dogs and she's a homely, runty little thing from a rescue, part Basset Hound of all things. But I've never had a sweeter dog, and it's rescues from now on for us.
post #12 of 20
ok--I read your other thread. Non-housetrained adult from breeder vs. Lyle--

LYLE! LYLE! LYLE!
post #13 of 20
Thread Starter 
I should clarify that I think the chances of us actually getting Lyle are slight. We're moving in a week. There's no way we can even apply to the rescue (or other rescues) until we have a home we can do a homevisit in.

If Lyle captured our hearts when he was stinky, slightly scared, and wearing a cone, I imagine that at this weekend's adoption events when he's bathed and cone free he will be very popular.

So, if I announce that my new dog is in fact not Lyle don't hate me OK?
post #14 of 20
I wouldn't hate you...I'd be sad for you, but not mad.

Lyle sounds wonderful, but if he doesn't work out I hope you find just the right match for your forever furry friend.
post #15 of 20
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Originally Posted by vegasgrl View Post
I've always been chosen by my pets. Much the same way as Lyle seems to have chosen your family. I think the fact that he's still on everyone's mind speaks volumes.

I have only cats right now but I did not chose any of them they picked me and Ds out! I always always always wanted a orange tabby cat always not one of my kitties have orange on them My Lala Ds did almost exactly what your Dc did he did not want to look at any other cats none he baically put his tiny foot down. Barney our big black cat! He put his little paw out of the cage at pet smart and rubbed our faces (no lie he still does to this day) Lexie our scared little girl she was so scared that Ds said we need to help her feel love that's my sensitive little boy he said that at 3 then wally really if you just knew that cat that is all you have to say

My point to really have a pet that fits in I believe that they need to find you I have a soft spot about rescues also as does my whole family so I would go with Lyle and really that is an adorable name if I ever heard one! Also if your Dc thinks that is the perfect pup I am sure it is my Lala was the best ever! And Ds wanted her more than anything else!
post #16 of 20
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Originally Posted by Momily View Post
I should clarify that I think the chances of us actually getting Lyle are slight. We're moving in a week. There's no way we can even apply to the rescue (or other rescues) until we have a home we can do a homevisit in.

If Lyle captured our hearts when he was stinky, slightly scared, and wearing a cone, I imagine that at this weekend's adoption events when he's bathed and cone free he will be very popular.

So, if I announce that my new dog is in fact not Lyle don't hate me OK?

If you are serious about wanting him I am sure they would hold him the SPCA held Barney for us for about 3 weeks because we were positive we wanted him and they thought he was perfect for us and us for him so honestly you never know if you explain they just may work for you if not then it wasn't meant to be. BUT you may regret it if you do not at least ask. the worst they will say is sorry no. I was not sure if I should call and ask them if they could hold him for us thinking they would laugh at me and say no! That was the best thing I could have done he is so wonderful! Also after I called about 4 people called about him and we still got him So if he feels right the worst they can say is no we can't sorry!

ETA: no one would be angery I would as a pp said be sad
post #17 of 20
Thread Starter 
I did email them, we'll see maybe they'll email back and say "sure, we're happy to hold him". I even thought about offering to pay to have him boarded until we could bring him home.

But I also know that when I contacted rescues a couple of weeks ago they all basically said we can't talk to you until you're ready. So, I'm kind of expecting a no.
post #18 of 20
Honestly, if you are interested in Lyle I would fill out the application. The whole interview/approval process can take a while, esp. since the people at most organizations are just volunteers. Just sayin' because young, small breed dogs don't tend to stay on the market very long.
post #19 of 20
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Originally Posted by Ola_ View Post
Honestly, if you are interested in Lyle I would fill out the application. The whole interview/approval process can take a while, esp. since the people at most organizations are just volunteers. Just sayin' because young, small breed dogs don't tend to stay on the market very long.
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He sounds like a great dog!
post #20 of 20
I think it's a good idea to let them know you are interested, but it would also be totally understandable if they won't hold him for you if they have other qualified families interested in him.

That said, he may still be available for a week or two. Rescues are flooded with cute, adorable animals in this economic climate.
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