Originally Posted by mmace
Me again! You know what else?! This comment:
is also extremely offensive to Single Mother's By Choice - I'm not one, but my hat's off to those lovely ladies!
There are a lot of roads that have led us to Single Motherhood, and accusing us of making "poor choices" is not only insulting, but yet one more instance of the "Mommy Wars" rearing it's ugly head, in my opinion...
Please, stop attacking me! I was just trying to point out that we all make mistakes. We all get into situations that we probably had SOME signs were coming down the pike! I'm not trying to blame everyone on here for their failed marriages!
The OP had a really cruel suggestion made to her, which was removed from the thread. My response, which was also removed because it quoted that post, was a response. It just meant, please don't judge the op so harshly! We all make mistakes.
I will totally accept that all of you who responded have no regrets, that's ok! I certainly have my share of blame in the downfall of my marriage
I did make some poor choices- sheesh! I'm not pointing the finger at you!
And of course I know that many parents choose to enter single parenthood from the beginning. I support them and do not think all single parents are there because they made poor choices!