Originally Posted by Seasons
2) If she moves to GA she needs to tell her husband (the father of her 18mo son) where she is, because her husband has visitation rights with his son and I think OP is required to keep the court/husband informed of her current address at all times.
After his father threatened to kidnap my son? I don't think so. He doesn't even have my current phone number and I like it that way. If he wants to have visitation, he has my parents' home phone number. He can call them and they will contact me, and then I will call him back from an unlisted number.
After the abuse that he put me through, I do not beleive he ahs the right to to have any information on my whereabouts. As far as I'm concerned, if he wants to see ds, he can still have visitation as mandated in the court order
(reasonable visitation -reasonable being left up to my discretion- with 72 hour's notice, supervised by me, in the state of VA).
I will happily take a bus back to VA from GA (it's only about 8 hours) and let him see ds at my parents' house or in a public place. He doesn't need to know that we don't actually live there.
At some point, regardless of what "the system" says, I have to use some common sense. This is the man that raped me in front of my son and invited his friends to watch/listen. He can sing a good song in court but I KNOW the truth. If he gave a flying rat's a** about his son A) he woul.d have actually USED his visitation rights and B) he wouldn't have put me in the position where I had to leav him and go to a shelter. Remember, I , quit my job and WENT BACK to him and LIVED with him so taht he could have 24/7 access to ds and a chance at a "real" relationship with him, which he claimed he wanted.
The jig is up for him. He just disgusts me.