Treasure Map 2009 - Happenings/Movement?

[jazzybaby9]

Oh I am seeing INCREDIBLE movement...already!! Didn't know that was possible.

I just got a new/first car, with the help of an old family friend (so random), ex and i are getting along wonderfully and communicating better than we EVER have before...everything with dd is running smoothly...met an absolutely AMAZING guy...*on my tm i put "soulmate organic gardener"* and he's an organic gardener... we have so much in common and talk for hours every night before bed (he just moved to denver, cool, eh?)... it's a very intense feeling... *I also put on my map "I build lasting relationships with positive peeople"* and all my friends who i don't quite get along with all told me (in the same 24 hours!) that they think we should cut ties...I AGREED 100%... i feel im on the brink of something incredible, something mindblowingly REAL.

THIS MAP IS WORKING WONDERS....i had no idea it could work this quickly, this powerfully......i am lovin every minute

edit: i also forgot to say i put "doula and midwifery" on my map, and BAM i had my first live birth as a doula a couple weeks ago.

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What's going on with everyone else and your maps???

[BellaLuna Rayne]

Mine is not doing anything good.

I put a whole relationship section for DH and I, with words like "passionately" and "trust." I have the phrases "my marriage grows stronger every single day" and "let's build something together." I also have "B loves B."

He's on his way back for R&R and lied about it. He also emailed me Monday that he wanted a divorce. He called saying he was tired of the fighting and some other stuff. In another email before he left he said we would talk when he got home but, I don't know if he means from the deployment or for R&R.

This is not what I wanted. Sorry to be a downer. I just am so confused.

[JTA Mom]

I'm sorry bella.

Well, this started in the first couple weeks after making TM.

I have a pic on there of a little boy hugging a woman (momma). I did it to show an extra closeness between ds & I. Well, guess who suddenly LOVES giving hugs & wants to be held all the time? lol

I also put up a few pics of happy couples, and a couple more intimate (snuggly under the covers) pics of couples, & dh & I have been, ummm, much more snuggly, lol.

Ami

[jazzybaby9]

I'm so sorry bellaluna...maybe you'll clear out the muck before the good can play out. Please keep us updated, I hope you are doing ok. s

[BellaLuna Rayne]

Just to update. I am filing for divorce. He has completely cut me out from everything, including being able to see his paychecks. He has made no contact with me in over a week and he has been back in the states since Friday.

I just don't know how the universe is going to interpret the relationship section now

[doubledutch]

i'm sorry bella, very sorry. i'm very curious to know about the rest of your map. i hope good things are headed your way.

my tm is a folder on my computer of photos found using google image search. i stupidly saved only the thumbnail (didn't click through to larger photos) so i can't print it out, but i look at it almost every day. one is a kind of retro-looking photo of a man and woman about to kiss, which turned up by searching for "joy" (apparently the photo is from "the joy of sex"). our relationship isn't the greatest, but there certainly has been a lot of joy of that variety going on at our house!

there are other things i can see beginning to happen, or getting set up to happen, but that's the only one i could really say has happened / is happening.

[BellaLuna Rayne]

This is my map:

http://s59.photobucket.com/albums/g3...DSC_0001-1.jpg

[doubledutch]

well, i see "be brave" "moving forward" and "guaranteed growth"! i hope the positive developments, with your midwifery practice and all the fun you have in mind for your little one, will help you get through it.

eta: wait! do you have a babe? i just assumed from your tm and because most people do here, but now i'm not so sure. now i'm wondering if that's another area where you're feeling a sense of loss, if you were hoping to have a babe and now those plans are changing. so sorry for the tough time you're going through!

[BellaLuna Rayne]

Originally Posted by doubledutch

well, i see "be brave" "moving forward" and "guaranteed growth"! i hope the positive developments, with your midwifery practice and all the fun you have in mind for your little one, will help you get through it.

I don't have a little one. We were trying before he left.

[doubledutch]

oops - sorry, i went to edit my post, then left my computer (for, um, half hour?!), saved changes and then saw your post. (((hugs)))

[BellaLuna Rayne]

Originally Posted by doubledutch

well, i see "be brave" "moving forward" and "guaranteed growth"! i hope the positive developments, with your midwifery practice and all the fun you have in mind for your little one, will help you get through it.

eta: wait! do you have a babe? i just assumed from your tm and because most people do here, but now i'm not so sure. now i'm wondering if that's another area where you're feeling a sense of loss, if you were hoping to have a babe and now those plans are changing. so sorry for the tough time you're going through!

Yeah, I am still hoping for a baby. I have wanted one for 2 years now. We tried for almost a year and all I can say is thank the gods we didn't have a baby.

Originally Posted by doubledutch

oops - sorry, i went to edit my post, then left my computer (for, um, half hour?!), saved changes and then saw your post. (((hugs)))

Oh its okay. I tend to do that too, especially with my nephew distracting me now.

[Emma.]

I put a picture of a graduation hat laying on top of money on my map for relief of student loan debt. Shortly after I finished the map we got letter in the mail saying that because of the economy they were reducing the interest rates to 6 % for the rest of the loan! It's not affecting our monthly payment amount but we will pay them off faster since we originally consolidated at somewhere around 8.5 %! Every little bit helps.

[Tracy]

Bella,
Big hugs. I am very certain you are going to have the relationship that is perfect for you. One that will nurture you immensely.

It may not be with your husband but it will be with someone.

Do not give up on your board. If it someone else so bet it....also something to think about...

http://www.mothering.com/discussions...&postcount=406

[Tracy]

also... I highly, highly recommend this for you

http://www.mothering.com/discussions...&postcount=407

[CariOfOz]

I'm seeing movement.. in a rather funny way though. I put a couple of images showing writing/writers as I want to start writing again... and now dh has starting writing a book based on a dream he had I told him to get outta my mojo dammit lol

[griffin2004]

I had the first happening/movement from my map this week. I've been visualizing a reliable, safe babysitter for DD so I can go out to a movie or out with friends or take a class occasionally. I got a lead on a great girl this week. I met her today and I think this will work out well.

Nothing other than that.

[Oriole]

Yep.

I have a picture of a german shepherd puppy, and my sister just picked one out! Very unexpected. I didn't know they were planning it when I was making the map. It was supposed to be MY puppy They will be bringing the little thing home in July.

I have a few couples on vacation pictures, and DP and I have been doing more one-on-one things together outside the house than ever. What surprising is, he's been initiating almost all of it, and the other day he mentioned that it was deliberate on his part.

Expecting any day now: for something to come through on the job front for him, followed by a house purchase, with a baby and all kinds of other wonderful things.

[Tracy]

oriole, i just took a peek at your blog. your blogging about stepmomming is feeling like an article. I think you should flesh it out and submit it somewhere.

[Oriole]

Tracy,
It's funny that you mention that, probably 1/4 of my map is dedicated to writing and getting published. I meant "a novel" when I was putting the map together, but I will definitely look into articles and magazines.

[mata]

I had a major actualization-at the beginning of the year we decided we wanted a new home-made my list of 15 wishes for it and sent intentions out to the universe. We found a house we liked (it had 14 out of those 15 items, plus 2 more good things I didn't even think of,) so we put our house on the market, got an offer that weekend, put an offer on the house we wanted and by a month and a half we were moved in. It was a bit too much too fast, but man, it happened! Our new home is truly everything we could want and I absolutely love it-I did not fully understand how soothing it is to your soul to be completely comfortable in your home. I don't think I've ever had that!

Now after 10 years of being out of the workplace to raise my dds, I'm in a place where I'd like to return, but in a new and improved way. It would be really cool if things fell into place as they did with our house.