First, quinoa doesn't seem to be causing any heartburn issues, so it's going to officially replace rice. Low GI, and it's a grain so I'm assuming low in fructose as well.
Next, I want to start regularly getting magnesium into dd and see what it does. If any of you posted about her, I'd be hounding you on the magnesium. It's time to listen to my own advice

I want to supplement - because I think her need goes above and beyond normal and healthy, and I don't think it's fair to ask a 2yo to eat a diet that totally centers around magnesium. So I'm thinking powders dissolved in liquids. We've done 'bedtime potion' in the past, which 'makes her very sleepy' but it seems to be too concentrated of a dose all at once, and we're not reliable about it. Which brings me to the next issue - the girl takes after her mom and doesn't drink during the day. I think I'm fixing it in myself by really pushing the salt. Given how she demands salt for her food, and how I'll let her taste my super salty water and she goes back for more, I'm thinking she could use the same treatment.
So my hope is that I can give her salty magnesium water, and then she'll be more interested in drinking and staying hydrated. I think the best plan of action will be to put it in her sigg bottle - that way it's invisible and it's more fun to drink. I wonder if just adding Mg to salty broth would work as well?
Alternatively, I could make myself salt water each morning, and give her sips, then just give her magnesium water. That might taste better.
Okay, I'm coming up with a plan here...
Pancakes or porridge for breakfast, made with lots of eggs and served with lots of butter. Grain will be either GF oats, leftover oatmeal, or brown rice flour. Liquid will be 'mineral water' bone broth.
Leftovers (from dinner) for lunch.
Dinner will be the usual, but sub quinoa for the rice, still cooked in bone broth. Plus lots of soups and lots of gravy (made with the brown rice flour+reduction). Aim for at least a cup of broth per meal (likely less at bfast and more at dinner).
In reading all about insulin, it seems that it's a good idea to balance your carb intake with exercise. We've been going on hikes lately, and I've been LOVING it. So I'm going to make a point of getting out and going on a hike at least a couple times a week. I think I'll choose specific days, and those'll just be 'hike days.' And since the weather is no longer wet, I'll try to bike places instead of driving, planning ahead for the time it'll take. Which involves fixing the flat on the bike without a kidseat, so dh can ride *it* to work. Between hikes and bikes, I think I'll do a good job of meeting my personal exercise needs.