So am I, which is why I support the OP's right to do what she did, even if I don't agree with her reasons.
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5/11/09 at 2:52pm
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Actually, neglect is against the law. There are babies that have died because their prents believed everything in the Ezzo books.
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Both more moral than book bookcases.
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I suppose my biggest problem with this particular form of "protest" is that the 3 (hypothetical) women whom the op stopped from picking up this book at the thrift store have no idea that ezzo books are bad..whereas..I don't know maybe a business type card or ssomething stuck inside each copy would perhaps make those three women aware that there are many experts who strongly disagree with ezzo.
No one is being "censored", the 3 women are (hopefully )educated, and could perhaps pass the info on, and the op is perhaps being more effective in her form of protest. |
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...and book birdhouses fall on the moral spectrum.
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My comments on things I was finding in the study were not intended to be a criticism of you and I apologize that you felt I was accusing you of supporting CIO. I knew you were offering Dr. Mindell as an example of an expert who supported CIO because I had requested that you share the studies you had found for the pro-CIO side of things.
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OP can do whatever she wants with her money and her beliefs. I personally hate the Babywise books, but TBH I have read a number of Dobson's books and have really gotten a lot of great info from them. I choose not to spank my children, so I understand why some of you disagree with some of his parenting approaches...but his mission is not to promotoe physical punishment. He has a great book on self-esteem, and many others. Just because I disagree with some of his beliefs, doesn't mean he's a horrible, evil person that shouldn't be allowed to give parenting advice.
Even with the Ezzo books, I'm not sure I'd do that form of protest...there are lots of things I disagree with AND that I believe to be morally wrong...but I'm not going to go my thrift store to buy EVERY book I think is wrong. |
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And again, do you believe in putting warning on everything one group of people believes is bad or wrong? Because if you did that than it wouldn't be a hot minute before Jame Dobson and cronies crap themselves with joy over putting warnings on AP books. Or warnings on Gay and Lesbian literature: Warning, reading this may turn you and your loved ones homosexual. And yeah, they would find some expert to back them up. I'm not big on experts of any kind. Anyone can be paid to say anything. Of course, you don't seem interested in debating the merits of warning people, you just want to point out how bad CIO, which EVERYONE on here already agrees with you on.
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THANK YOU. I'm sorry, but these books are on the side of the spectrum where children have died as a result of someone reading these books and practicing them to a tee. SURELY, you can understand that, and understand why another mother would want to save a new mom the possibility of not only damaging her child for life emotionally, but possibly saving that child from death.
Extreme, yes. But those books are literally an instruction booklet on how to abuse an infant. : |
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Looks like my last posted got deleted. Interesting. I have no idea why.
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| All I know is, if I were looking for a particular book-- ANY book-- and found out someone had bought up all the copies because they disagreed with the contents and didn't want others to read it, I'd be pretty freaking annoyed. |