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Anyone want to be pregnant again...now.

post #1 of 22
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Anyone?
I felt this way 1 week PP

And life is crazy...and I want to be pregnant with a toddler and newborn? :

Realistically, no...I don't want my milk to dry up and yeah...its crazy

post #2 of 22
oh H*LL no.

i'm very much done.

but i think it's awesome that you do! i'm glad that you're feeling well and lovin' life! that's fantastic!
post #3 of 22
Well, me. But I don't think I'm quite who you meant that for.

I remember after my third I wanted to be pregnant right away like you do. My son was born 14 months later.
post #4 of 22
I did! It was a total surprise to feel that way! It took us over two years to even consider #2 and I'm not sure my DH was ever convinced regarding #2!!! But here he is! I had a harder pregnancy and delivery, so that is another reason I'm surprised I had these feelings early post-partum. Could also be because we are done...and I have two boys. I guess that's normal to wonder what it would be like to have a little girl if you've got only boys....
post #5 of 22
I came here to post and ask about some suspiciously fertile cervical mucous, and found your thread. Hmmmm....

To answer your question- no way! But I do have a raging libido, so there may be something there. Like my biology over-riding my logic.

Does anyone else have discharge that looks like fertile mucous? I'm 5 weeks postpartum. I've charted before and my cervix feels lower than I would expect for ovulating. But it feels generally lower anyways. I'm nursing every 2-4 hours around the clock and co-sleeping. We are using a pacifier, though. I didn't start ovulating or get PPAF until 20-21 months postpartum with Neela, and only then when I tried to night-wean. Please tell me this isn't likely- because I haven't been using any birth control
post #6 of 22
i'm so here with your feelings at only 3 weeks pp

and i'm thinking i've lost my mind seeing as I haven't figured out having a 3 year old and a newborn yet. I remember having the same feelings after dd was born. For me the most powerful I ever feel in life is when I'm giving birth. It was much more intense this time, but still powerful feeling.

PP bleeding is down to just spotting and I want to jump my dh
post #7 of 22
I felt that way after DS1. That pregnancy was so easy. And I felt sure that I was meant to have many children.... I wanted them so badly, I'd get phantom kicks in my womb.

But this pregnancy was rough. It really exacerbated my existing health problems. I feel lucky that baby and I both got through it okay and I don't want to tempt fate again.

I do feel a sudden sense of unreadiness for DP's upcoming vasectomy now that I am PP though. Logically I know that another pregnancy would be a bad idea for my body.... I don't want to do it. But thinking about closing that door forever kinda makes me tear up.
post #8 of 22
nope...loved being pg, love being non-pg! good to go (and still a little sore)
post #9 of 22
nooooooooo.

I was so miserable at the end of my pregnancy. I'm so glad I'm done. I had sleep apnea at the end of it, and couldn't breathe at night. It was terrifying. I got a cold 1 week pp and when my nose started getting congested, I had flashbacks to that suffocation feeling and started panicking .

I think my body only had enough mojo to carry 2 babies. Any more, and I'd be a hot mess by the end of it.

Also having PIH twice is quite enough for me. argh.

I love my babies, but I'm not one of those people who loves being pregnant.

XOXO
B
post #10 of 22
I felt that way after I had my third. I wanted to get pregnant right away! It was a burning desire. It ended up taking almost 2 years before I was expecting again, and I had that burning desire the whole time!!
Rebecca
post #11 of 22
I keep telling my pregnant friends that I wouldn't mind still being pregnant because it was so much easier pop into the grocery store, etc. with LO still inside.
post #12 of 22
Hellz no.
post #13 of 22
ok, i'm already back from replying last night - I can't handle these two - while the idea of being pregnant is nice sounding...i think i'll loose my mind with these two
post #14 of 22
At first I missed it, but now I am enjoying being done with it for now. I like seeing the little guy and not wondering how he's doing inside. I do miss the energy I had in the 3rd tri though!
post #15 of 22
not.at.all.
post #16 of 22
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Originally Posted by MI_Dawn View Post
Well, me. But I don't think I'm quite who you meant that for.
Glad to see you still around here some! I read your blog last night, oh mamma it was sooo moving! You are an amazing writer and I'm amazed that you can blog about it at this time. I think of you daily and hope that when the time is right for your family, you will be blessed with a healthy baby.

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Originally Posted by Sasharna View Post

I do feel a sudden sense of unreadiness for DP's upcoming vasectomy now that I am PP though. Logically I know that another pregnancy would be a bad idea for my body.... I don't want to do it. But thinking about closing that door forever kinda makes me tear up.
We've put the vasectomy card back in the box...it's just too soon to make that decision, we are still in our 20's, who knows how I'll feel in 4 years. Though right now we still don't plan on having anymore, so we are going back to condoms, Yuck! This last pregnancy/delivery was hard on me so I'm not sure I want to do it again ever...though I do somewhat miss being pregnant, I LOVE having baby here better.

I think it's funny that I carry babe in the same place with the wrap as preggo but to me it is easier to have babe being carried out than in. I worried more with the in and was sooo uncomfortable and cranky!!!
post #17 of 22
Quote:
Originally Posted by ShineliketheSon View Post
Glad to see you still around here some! I read your blog last night, oh mamma it was sooo moving! You are an amazing writer and I'm amazed that you can blog about it at this time. I think of you daily and hope that when the time is right for your family, you will be blessed with a healthy baby.
Blogging is good therapy for me.

And thanks... I hope so, too.
post #18 of 22
Yeah, I'm there too since like 2 days PP! For me though, it's knowing that my family isn't complete with just one baby. I really want to let Xander self-wean before TTC#2. DH is insistant that we'll only be a family of 3 but I don't see him in any hurry to schedule an appointment with Dr. Snip
post #19 of 22
Yeah... thinking of another... but not realistically. I know when this one gets mobile I'll be rethinking it all!!

I told DH that DS #2 is already growing too fast!! He says "he's only a week!" SO!! I know he's going to grow too fast especially since DS 1 has seemed to grow so fast and is now a big brother!!
post #20 of 22
I loved being pregnant and I missed that feeling almost immediately. Not the discomforts - the movements, the anticipation, the way I just was so full...

I definitely have more than enough on my plate right now with my 3, though ... especially after yesterday's shinanigans.
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