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Weight loss and Low Hgb in Breastfed Toddler

post #1 of 11
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Carter is 18 months old. We encountered two issues at his 18 month well baby visit today.

Recently he has begun to lose a significant amount of weight. He was 30lbs at 12 months, and now, at 18 months he is 23lbs 6.5oz. He has been on this downward trend since just after his 1st birthday.

Before his 1st birthday, he was always in the 95th percentile or above for his weight. Now, he is in the 25th percentile. His height has fluctuated back and forth between the 25th and 50th percentile from birth. Currently, he is in the 25th percentile for height.

Until 12 months, he was exclusively breastfed. Until 14.5 months, 95% of his nutrition came from breastmilk. Currently, he is eating a HUGE variety of solids. He also still breastfeeds on demand, and is quite frequent.

He has a hypersensitivity to cows’ milk, and we’re not sure if he also does to soy and coconut. The cows’ milk issue presented itself as excessive vomiting as an infant and blood in his stool. Now, if he consumes cows’ milk, his bowel movements immediately react with his skin, producing a red, welted rash that bleeds.

Our pediatrician is content to watch and wait, which I am, for the most part. She states that because I am so small (below the 2nd percentile for my weight when not pregnant), that he may just be taking after me. She also states that he is healthy, and in the right place for all of his developmental milestones. She reasons that an underlying issue would present itself developmentally and in his health as well.

However, she has recommended adding some sort of milk substitute to his diet. Generally, I would not agree with this recommendation, but as I am 15 weeks pregnant, I’m not sure I’m still meeting his nutritional needs. Would it be prudent to add some type of non-cows’ milk to his diet?
I do want to be sure not to be complacent, but also do not want to overreact.

The other issue that we encountered is his hemoglobin. It is 9.4, down from 12.6 at 9 months. His pediatrician is content to treat with diet for 6 weeks, and then test again. If, at that point, we have not achieved an adequate increase, we will discuss supplementation. What are the best ways to increase a young toddler’s iron intake? I don’t cook meat, but Carter and my husband eat it while out.

While I trust my pediatrician, I’m seeking additional information. Does any of this stick out as odd or unhealthy or wrong? A little bit of me feels like “oh my gosh, I’ve been starving the kid, he is losing weight and is iron-deficient.” I don’t want to be neurotic, but I don’t want to overlook things, either.
post #2 of 11
Hi!

Well, I know that once toddlers start walking and really being active their weight often plateaus or drops a little. My DS has not lost weight but hasn't gained any in forever, since he started walking and "thinning out".

I am a mostly ovo lacto vegetarian and my DS eats no meat. His iron levels stay up good and what I've done is give him lots of nonheme iron sources (beans, raisins, spinach, eggs, whole grains) and he has eaten all these well since about 10 months. Nonheme iron (non-meat) supposedly is better absorbed when accompanied by vitamin C, so for instance, make black bean burritos with diced tomatoes or bell peppers in a whole grain tortilla, cut it up into small strips. On days when my toddler is picky, he might not want it mixed together in a tortilla though, just plain beans next to the diced tomatoes, so I try to be flexible. Also, one of his favorite foods since he started on solids is straight up cooked soybeans (edamames) which has a good amount of iron (if your LO turns out to be ok with soy). If you drizzled flax oil or butter over the veggies or beans it would add some good calories, too.

My LO does sometimes eat fortified breakfast cereals, which is a little "fakey" but better on the digestion than straight iron supplements, IMO.

Hope that helps! That seems like a lot of weight to drop but probably is just a normal toddler thing. I did ultimately lose my supply when pregnant, so that is the only other thing I'd keep an eye on, since he might not be getting as much as he was before even though he might be nursing as much or more frequently.
post #3 of 11
6 pounds in 6 months seems like alot of weight, he wasn't otherwise sick or anything? How about having a blood test for food and environmental allergies? I suggest posting and checking out the allergy forum too.
post #4 of 11
I'm generally all for DRs who want to wait things out, 6# is a LOT of weight. Rule of thumb is generally more than 10% of body weight and you need to figure out what's going on. Weight loss w/ the iron going down, there is a problem. If he was just taking after you, he wouldn't lose 6#, he'd just slow down on growth. Sounds like allergies to me. I've had 4 kids w/ allergies now, 2 of those were effected in the weight dept b/c of it. They were small to begin w/ and were often under the charts entirely. Right now I'm dairy, soy, egg, wheat, and beef free. I would go off major allergens, dairy, soy, egg, wheat, peanuts, treenuts, fish, and shellfish and see what happens. What about diabetes? That's an easy test and if it's bad enough can cause weight loss despite eating well etc.
post #5 of 11
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Originally Posted by thepeach80 View Post
I'm generally all for DRs who want to wait things out, 6# is a LOT of weight. Rule of thumb is generally more than 10% of body weight and you need to figure out what's going on. Weight loss w/ the iron going down, there is a problem. If he was just taking after you, he wouldn't lose 6#, he'd just slow down on growth. Sounds like allergies to me. I've had 4 kids w/ allergies now, 2 of those were effected in the weight dept b/c of it. They were small to begin w/ and were often under the charts entirely. Right now I'm dairy, soy, egg, wheat, and beef free. I would go off major allergens, dairy, soy, egg, wheat, peanuts, treenuts, fish, and shellfish and see what happens. What about diabetes? That's an easy test and if it's bad enough can cause weight loss despite eating well etc.
This.

Have you visited the Allergies forum? I think the wise mamas there will be able to help you. There is definitely something going on here. I would not consider this a "wait-and-see" situation at all. Good luck!
post #6 of 11
Sorry; double post.
post #7 of 11
This is a lot of weight loss and a significant decrease in hemaglobin. Your baby has failure to thrive (FTT). Babies are not supposed to loose weight.

My baby was hospitalized at a major children's hospital at 12 months for FTT and he hadn't lost weight, he had just stopped gaining. He was hospitalized for 3 weeks. My baby had common variable immune deficiency (CVID), a primary (genetic) immune deficiency. FTT is one of the 10 warning signs of primary immune deficiencies. There are many different causes of FTT

Iron deficiency anemia can cause permanent mental, motor, or behavioral problems. The lowest a toddler's hgb should be is 11.

Your baby's condition is bad enough that it is reasonable to go to an urgent care center at a hospital or the er. Before you go check out what kind of room your child would be admitted to (private, 2 bed, 4 bed) and policies on parents staying. Be prepared for the staff to accuse you of starving your baby.

My children have been hospitalized several times and I always stayed 24/7. If you can't stay, arrange for someone else to stay.
post #8 of 11
I don't think you're being neurotic at all. It's worrying for anyone to inexplicably lose 20% of their bodyweight let alone a toddler. I'm really amazed your doctor didn't try harder to get to the root of the problem. Could you see another pediatrician and a vegetarian-friendly registered dietitian?
Don't give up until you find out what's up with your little one, mama.
Good luck.
post #9 of 11
My first reaction is diabetes. I have a diabetic son and this is how he was. He was admitted to the PICU a a mere 19 lbs at 2.5 yrs old (this was just last October), down from 26 lbs just 4 or 5 months before... Heck, he was down 4 lbs in ONE WEEK from when he saw the pedi.

Please don't wait... Get him to a children's hospital ASAP. 6lbs in loss and a low hbg is NOT normal...

I cannot believe your pedi wants to wait it out... It's obvious your son is failing to thrive (not your fault, his body may be shutting down because of something). DO NOT wait until your son is so sick he's unable to maintain blood pressure. I lived through that just last October with my son (the first hospital told us he was conspitated and 36 hours later he was barely awake and unable to maintain BP, I was pregnant as well, please don't put yourself through it)...

I agree with PP.... Be prepared for them to acuse you of starving your child... Be prepared for DCF/social services to be involved. It's normal and they did it even with my son, who was admitted originally for a perforated bowel (see how far off the first hospital was?).

Hugs mama.... My prayers are with you... I pray that all is fine and it's a simple allergy but please please please don't wait...
post #10 of 11
I hope things are well with Carter
post #11 of 11
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Originally Posted by foreverinbluejeans View Post
Your baby has failure to thrive (FTT).
IS failure to thrive, not HAS. Failure to thrive isn't something you get, like the flu.
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