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post #21 of 34


Homewithtwinsmama, you ROCK! This is a great post and I agree and stand behind you 100% that we need a serious call to action.

Last week when I saw your post I printed it and made copies and distributed to my LLL meeting, and one woman there took more copies from me to hand out at her playgroup.

I also distributed to all the Moms I know as well as some others here at work.

Letter written and sent. It wasn't as spectacular as your's though, as I'm new to this and did not know what all I should include. But I'm saving notes for future use.
post #22 of 34
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whoohooo over 1100 views, but does that mean

that 1100 calls and letter went out to support the Breastfeeding Promotion Act. What are you waiting for?

Thanks JSMa, sadly I have had to write letters like this for far too long so I have gotten fairly good at it.
post #23 of 34
Not in the U.S. but praise your efforts. You are absolutely right, we obsess over things like rudeness to BF mothers in restaurants or the sale of nursing covers, when women are struggling to even be physically able to nurse their newborns, or to be allowed to pump at work, or to get reliable BF information from health professionals. Lactivism is about more than NIP.
Best of luck.
post #24 of 34
I was OUTRAGED when I read your title! I am glad that didn't really happen.

That being said, great post.
post #25 of 34
I emailed my Rep.
post #26 of 34
What exactly do I do and how do I do it?

I'm used to getting clickable links on environmental issues sent to my inbox, where I just "click here" and then they automatically add my (saved) contact info and email the appropriate people. All I have to do is tweak the pre-written letter a bit to personalize it, and click "send."

How do I find out who my Representative is? (Um, if it turns out that Ms. Maloney is my own rep then I'll send out an email of thanks, not one urging her to join in, YK?)
post #27 of 34
OK, I answered my own questions. Here's the link for the House of Representatives; on the top right corner of the page is a place to enter your zip code and find out your representative.

I just sent off an email to Steve Israel; I'm sure I'll get an automated response soon.
post #28 of 34
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Originally Posted by Ruthla View Post
What exactly do I do and how do I do it?

I'm used to getting clickable links on environmental issues sent to my inbox, where I just "click here" and then they automatically add my (saved) contact info and email the appropriate people. All I have to do is tweak the pre-written letter a bit to personalize it, and click "send."

How do I find out who my Representative is? (Um, if it turns out that Ms. Maloney is my own rep then I'll send out an email of thanks, not one urging her to join in, YK?)
Ruthla,

I had the link to find your rep in my original post/thread on the Breastfeeding Promotion Act along with all the info you need to educate your Rep. why this is so important for women. Working breastfeeding women don't have lobbyists or big non-profits pushing our agendas, its gotta be grassroots. I don't have the time, money, or knowledge to create one of those fancy mass email organizations that you can click and send. So far this time round Momsrising hasn't gotten anything out about it that I know of(I seem to recall they did last time). Now that you have sent an email follow it up with a phone call to the office in DC asking to speak to a legislative aide. And get some mama friends in your district to do the same. They need to hear from constituents in numbers on an issue for it to get attention! All I can tell you is Maloney's aides said that one big impediment has been that we have never had more than 20 co-sponsors in all the years she has introduced this bill. Bills get attention when they have long lists of co-sponsors.
post #29 of 34
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Originally Posted by ancoda View Post
I emailed my Rep.
Thanks, now go out and get ten of your friends who live in your district to do the same.
post #30 of 34
I don't have a rep to write to, but I will pass this on.
post #31 of 34
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Do it now!

If you read this and thought, oh yes I better send a letter or call my representative. And then never did it, here is your second chance! Bump!!
post #32 of 34
I used your letter and tweaked it somewhat (hope you don't mind). My rep is a Republican, so I stole your line and switched the party, lol. The last time I contacted her, about supporting legislation for midwives and freestanding birth centers to continue to be funded by Medicaid, she did contact me back with interest, so I think I have an audience with her.

"As a mother and grandmother, I know you will be sympathetic with my cause. What matter could be more pressing than a mother's right to get proper nutrition to her child? No, I am not talking about malnourished children in Africa, I am talking about babies right here in your country, in your state, in your district. Of course I know you will be prompt in your action because I know you are devoted to women's issues as the former Republican Co-Chair of the Congressional Caucus for Women’s Issues.

I am writing to you to draw your attention to the Breastfeeding Promotion Act, sponsored by Congresswoman Maloney of New York and to urge you to support it. Breastfeeding mothers have been working with Rep. Carolyn Maloney's office to get out a large activist presence for her Reintroduction of the Breastfeeding Promotion Act bill on June 3rd at 11:30am on Cannon Terrace. I am asking you to sign on as an original cosponsor of the bill and would love to see you attend and speak at the press conference.

The Breastfeeding Promotion Act will do four basic things to help working women across the nation. It will:

* Add workplace protections for breastfeeding mothers as a protected class under the Civil Rights Act of 1964
* Provide incentives for employers to have private lactation areas for workers
* Create a performance standard for breastpump equipment
* Create tax deductions for pumping equipment

There is no downside to helping new mothers return to the workplace and do the healthiest thing they can for themselves and their babies. It gives the Republican Party the true claim to be the party of "family values." It fits perfectly with Health Care Reform because of the immediate benefits and reduction of health care costs for the care of infants as well as the long term health benefits to mothers. Recently studies showed that mothers who breastfeed (or provide pumped breastmilk) for two years or longer reduce their premenopausal breast cancer risks 40%. Right now the duration of breastfeeding drops dramatically after 3 months. I believe it is no coincidence that this is right when women who access the Family Medical Leave Act must then return to often hostile work climates where pumping is frowned upon or outright forbidden.

My sister-in-law was unable to provide the best nutrition for her son. Although she hoped to breastfeed for one year, as per the American Academy of Pediatrics, while working she was not able to keep up pumping and her milk dried up. This was extremely disappointing to her, to say the least, and it is quite a common experience among mothers. I hear it all the time from friends and acquaintances. Women are just not given the accommodation they need to continue pumping in the workplace.

By creating workplace protections all workers will become more open and understanding of the needs of new mothers, leading to a greater national support for breastfeeding in general. Just as sexual harassment law led to greater understanding of women's rights in the workplace and intolerance for harassment, this bill will lead to a day when my four daughters' and my son's future wife's daughter's employers won't question their need to provide both high productivity at work AND the best infant nutrition they can to their babies.

I understand that this issue requires working "across the aisle," but as uncontroversial and important an issue it is, I know that will not be an issue for you. Our new first lady speaks weekly about the need for family friendly work policies and the need for work/life balance. The nation is tuned in and ready for a bill like this.

I hope to hear from you that you will add your name to this bill dedicated to supporting the 70% of mothers in the nation who are also part of the workforce."
post #33 of 34
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[QUOTE=BellaRose0212;13821484]I used your letter and tweaked it somewhat (hope you don't mind). My rep is a Republican, so I stole your line and switched the party, lol. The last time I contacted her, about supporting legislation for midwives and freestanding birth centers to continue to be funded by Medicaid, she did contact me back with interest, so I think I have an audience with her.

Whatever works!
post #34 of 34
i love your post! can we have a rally or something? i have always wanted to do it and it sounds like fun. other activists do it all the time! sort of like a nurse in except its not to protest someone's ignorant actions.... its just to educate and give BFing positive visibility. a big breast feeding party on the national mall or something.
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