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post #1 of 19
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Went for my U/S and than saw my midwife. Baby is measuring over 43+ weeks for his abdomen and head and they diagnosed me with polyhydramnios with a fluid level of 28.

My midwife is awesome and while she was very concerned, she suggested we try to wait a few days and see if labor kicks in (Had her strip my membranes), if not we were going to try to induce by AROM in the hospital. Then I headed to L&D for the NST, which baby passed perfectly. Then the midwife called the hospital and told them to send me back to the office because she wanted to see me.

I got there and apparently I am now an "accident waiting to happen" according to the head OB. They didn't even want me to go home, wanted to send directly back to the hospital to be admitted for an emergency c-section. Baby is still floating out of the pelvis, and they are concerned about cord prolapse, especially since I am 30 minutes from the hospital in the best case scenario. I told them it was impossible for me to go right that minute, I needed to get my SO home from NY, get DD to her aunt's house, etc. My midwife was the only one willing to let me go and get everything settled first, as long as I promised to show up at some point this evening to be admitted to L&D for close monitoring with a c-section scheduled for tomorrow morning.

I'm done. DP is on his way home, he'll be taking me to check in at L&D, than taking DD to my SIL, than he'll come back and spend the night with me at the hospital. DS will be arriving tomorrow AM.

I'm disappointed in not getting a VBAC, I know I have the right to refuse and tell them to fly a kite, but something is telling me to get him out now. I am not going to ignore my instinct and would rather have control of the situation somewhat, rather than an emergency in labor.

Talk to you all soon.
post #2 of 19
DDC crashing, but I saw your post and wanted to ask you a quick question.

First, though, I'm sorry you're not getting the birth you wanted, and I admire you for thinking so clearly and finding a way still to have control over the situation.

I have a high fluid level, too--not quite as high, mine is 26--and it's been that way for a few weeks now. My dr. is watching it. May I ask why you are a risk for cord prolapse? Is it only because fluid is high or is it because baby's head is not engaged and so a rupture of your membranes would have a greater chance of swooping the cord into a dangerous position? I'm not sure if my baby's head is engaged yet, but I don't think so. It does worry me.
Sorry, I know I'm crashing, but I haven't seen much info on high fluid levels, mostly low levels.

Thank you, and I wish you a fast recovery and healthy baby very soon!!!!

Deb
post #3 of 19
mama! My thoughts are with you and hoping for a fast recovery!! I'm also sorry you aren't getting the birth you desired, but it's good to follow your instincts in this situation, and you'll be welcoming you LO into the world very soon!
post #4 of 19
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Sorry you can't have your Vbac, but the most important thing is your safety and your baby's safety!

Hope you can get a little rest tonight, and can't wait for your update!

You'll be in my thoughts!
post #5 of 19
I'm so sorry you won't be getting your vbac but I think you are wise to listen to your gut feeling. You are in between a rock and a hard place and are doing what you feel is best--everything is going to be ok. Your baby is going to be here soon mama! I wish you the easiest recovery imaginable!
post #6 of 19
not in ddc, but wanted to say~ You're following your gut Mama, all will be well.
Soon your little one will be in your arms. :
post #7 of 19
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Originally Posted by ScootchsMom View Post
Went for my U/S and than saw my midwife. Baby is measuring over 43+ weeks for his abdomen and head and they diagnosed me with polyhydramnios with a fluid level of 28.

My midwife is awesome and while she was very concerned, she suggested we try to wait a few days and see if labor kicks in (Had her strip my membranes), if not we were going to try to induce by AROM in the hospital. Then I headed to L&D for the NST, which baby passed perfectly. Then the midwife called the hospital and told them to send me back to the office because she wanted to see me.

I got there and apparently I am now an "accident waiting to happen" according to the head OB. They didn't even want me to go home, wanted to send directly back to the hospital to be admitted for an emergency c-section. Baby is still floating out of the pelvis, and they are concerned about cord prolapse, especially since I am 30 minutes from the hospital in the best case scenario. I told them it was impossible for me to go right that minute, I needed to get my SO home from NY, get DD to her aunt's house, etc. My midwife was the only one willing to let me go and get everything settled first, as long as I promised to show up at some point this evening to be admitted to L&D for close monitoring with a c-section scheduled for tomorrow morning.

I'm done. DP is on his way home, he'll be taking me to check in at L&D, than taking DD to my SIL, than he'll come back and spend the night with me at the hospital. DS will be arriving tomorrow AM.

I'm disappointed in not getting a VBAC, I know I have the right to refuse and tell them to fly a kite, but something is telling me to get him out now. I am not going to ignore my instinct and would rather have control of the situation somewhat, rather than an emergency in labor.

Talk to you all soon.
Liz, I can only imagine how stressful this is. Just think you'll be holding your baby tomorrow (and on my due date so it's a lucky day)
post #8 of 19
Thinking of you today, take care
post #9 of 19
What a stressful day ... glad they're letting you get things lined up first and that you'll be holding your baby soon!
post #10 of 19
Oh, mama--I'll be thinking of you and hoping all goes well. I think it's important to listen to your instincts, so while I'm also sorry you aren't getting to experience your VBAC, I'd probably make the same decision in your shoes. I hope that your birth goes wonderfully and that you're holding your little one before you know it!
post #11 of 19
I would completely make the same decision in your shoes and you should be very proud of yourself for going with your instinct. I wish you a safe delivery of your baby and a very speedy recovery.
post #12 of 19
Well, hell. That puts MY day in perspective.

Hugs to you, mama. I'm so sorry for the circumstances, but I'm excited to hear all about your beautiful baby!
post #13 of 19
I can't say what I would do in your position. If there's one thing I've learned in life it's that I can never say what I'd do unless I'm the one looking down the barrel.
s to you. Praying for a healthy and happy delivery for you, even if it's not how you had dreamed it happening.
post #14 of 19
I was just thinking about you today (would-be castor oil buddy ) and wondering if your LO had arrived.

I'm sorry you're not going to get your VBAC, but go with your instincts! You have them for a reason!

I'll be praying you have a safe and happy delivery. And tomorrow this time, you'll have your baby in your arms which is the best part! Good luck!
post #15 of 19
Wishing you the very best for a safe birth. Bravo for listening to and following your instincts.
post #16 of 19
Good luck today!!
post #17 of 19
(((Liz))) Thinking of you this morning as you are meeting your new little one. I'm so sorry things are going the way they are.
post #18 of 19
DDC crashing... Sounds like you are unfavorable for induction, although the baby floating high isn't always a sign that induction will not work. I am wondering if the increased risk for cord prolapse is because of the high volume of amniotic fluid coupled with the baby at a higher station? Meaning it could rupture quite forcefully and force the cord out?

At any rate, I wish you lots of luck mama! You'll be holding your sweet baby soon. get that skin to skin contact asap mama! If you can refuse the baby bath beforehand (the smell of the fluid and gunk left behind on baby helps you and baby to bond and start nursing, it can increase oxytocin).
post #19 of 19
*hugs* hope all went well!
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