My daughter (and only) is 20.5 months. We are doing the "Don't offer, don't refuse" method. Well, sometimes, I have to refuse, like when we're in the middle of a store. Sometimes, at home, I offer her solids, like before lunch, fairly sure she will fall asleep if she nurses then. (And if nap time is later in the afternoon, then the day seems shorter. Yep. Selfish method on my part.) For the most part, I want to do child-led, or at least, this method, but starting today, I think it might be the beginning of the end, and I'm not sure what I'm going to do about that. I started to come here to ask about this, then saw your question. When I started to post, I realized they were intertwined, so I thought I would still post.