Originally Posted by 2cutiekitties
The narcissistic mothers link ... it just makes me so incredibly sad that anyone has to deal with that.
For those of us with narcissistic mothers, it was all we ever knew until we left home (if we were lucky enough to escape). Maybe we should start our own tribe.
OP, I'm not familiar with your previous posts or plans for moving to Georgia (?) but if those plans involve taking help from your parents, particularly financial help, I think you should reevaluate them and come up with a way that you can be completely independent.
YOU are not the crazy one here, okay? Your parents sound totally demented. At the very least they have serious sexual issues and a total lack of respect for your boundaries. And it's not innocent behavior, though I'm certain that's how they try to paint it. Like it's for your own good, right? Nonsense. They get off on this behavior. They like to shame you and they enjoy what they are doing. They may also get a sexual release from tormenting you this way.
I'm not trying to retraumatize you but you need to know how very severe and destructive this situation is. Your parents are sexually abusive. Your child is living with two adults who are sexually abusive. This alone is grounds for concern, particularly if someone who is a mandated reporter finds out about your situation. Even though their behavior is not your fault in any way, your child is in danger, and that's what it comes down to. Do you understand what I'm getting at?
I'm so, so sorry. Please lean on your friends and (healthy) family as much as you need to at this time. Unless your ex was abusive too, he would probably be a much safer person to live with than your parents. Please get out of there ASAP. We'll be thinking of you.