When I went to the doctor for the first time, it was just to find a referral to an OB so I brought my 6 month DD. The nurse who admits you to the room before you see the dr asked what I aws there for, so I told her, "I'm pregnant and need a referral." She looked at me, looked at DD, looked at me and then said (completely shocked and disgusted) "and you're KEEPING it?!?"
When I told my mom (my sister and I are 15 months apart), she said "oh congratulations! I feel so so bad for you! The first few months are going to be a nightmare!"
And when I told my sister (who had been encouraging me to TTC when DD was 4 months old) she said, "oh NO!!! How did this happen? Is it on purpose?" WTH???