Originally Posted by spruce
My DP will hardly speak to me right now.
He's upset about a new baby, and won't talk. He doesn't look at me, doesn't smile at me, doesn't hug me. He makes a huge deal out of putting all his attention into the kids, and it's pretty damned obvious that he's ignoring me.
Ummm I don't understand this. It's not like you got pregnant by yourself! My grandmother said my grandfather was upset with their last 2. (but he never treated her like crap.. just initially upset.) Apparenlty she had tried diaphragms but they didn't work. My mom, who is the youngest of 8 was born in '48 so it's not like they had a whole lot of options then.
If your DH is so upset why doesn't he do something to prevent any more? That is what my DH did.
What is this facebook group you speak of. I must have missed it.
I do find it kinda sad that everyone is moving over to facebook.